Okay... I know everyone prollly thinks this is a stupid question but I must ask. Which is better?... Oral or getting Jacked off? I personally like..or actually love giving oral and I have gotten compliments but a guy I know from back in the day keeps commenting on my jack off skills.. whats the deal?? Can it really be that good? I find it so childish and elementary... Is it because it's a girl touching you in your no no spot??? lol..??? i dont get it! anyways..just a stupid question... guys???
I'm probably in the minority, and I'm sure a lot of people disagree, and I respect their views. I'm only talking about me: When a woman knows what she's doing, and gives me a great handjob, it feels at least as good as any other type of sex I can have. It doesn't happen that often. I think giving great handjobs is a difficult art to master. By the way, getting a great hj plus a bj at the same time is great, too.
Well, thank you for the advice..i will def. keep it in mind... I guess the swirling at the tip really is that good.. huh...who woulda thought! thanks!!!
hj with lubrication.. fun fun fun. i like them because you can still be face to face with your girl.. and when shes using you to please herself.. i love that! to come pressed up against your lovers button... you should try it.
That is hott! next time i get the chance to do that i shall! thanks for the idea... and the dirty thought!
...............a combination of h/j and b/j is great, also it gives you a choice if you don't want to swallow, sweetness. Also please don't use the word "no no spot" .....were adults here its a weewee.
wow, i also prefer a handjob with a just a touch of oral thrown in there for good measure. huh, i figured all the other guys would have responded they prefer blowjobs....
I've never had a decent blowjob, so I can say without any doubt that I prefer jacking off...but I'm sure that one of these days I'm going to get a killer blowjob, and then it'll swap
I prefer the full experience: Start off with some good foreplay, tease my cock a little, kiss me, stroke, suck it, caress it, whatever she wants to do. All the while, I am between her legs, licking and tickling and fingering and savoring her sweet smell. Then we kiss and rub each other, and then she sits on top of me, grinding me with her soaking wet crotch until we can't stand it any more. Then I throw her off of me onto the bed, get between her legs, and slowly penetrate her, each of us savoring every second as I slowly bury my manhood into her. Then, well, yeah, you know. You know. Then after we both come so many times we go numb and raw, we lay together caressing ech other and feeling our naked body's touching. The we shower together, and go back to the bed. Change the sheets cause they are totally soaked with sweat and the juices of love, and then make love again, slowly, without breaking a sweat, and after we both come, we fall asleep holding each other naked in our arms.
lol, maybe I should start writing sex stories in my spare time, is there any money in that at all? Hmmmm......... I just wrote that off the top of my head, I guess I am just good at expressing my thoughts with good descriptors and lots of sexy words.
yea.. you would def. be a really good porno writer... and that story sounds really nice thanks for all your opinions..and i am SHOCKED of the answers! maybe there is still hope for some guys who still are "all about the intimacy"... good stuff thanks
my b/f likes it better when i give head. he gets to cum in my mouth, and i like doing that. hand jobs. well, i mix it in. but oral is more intimate.
I find with a hj I can get my bf off faster, but he prefers a bj. So I usually always mix it up. Get him going with a good hand job, start sucking away to get his pleasure right up there, take breaks and bring him closer faster with the hj, and the let him cum in my mouth like he likes to do. It's really quite useful, because depending on how I feel, I can control how long it takes for him to cum. If I"m feeling lazy and I want it quick, I just use more hands, if I want it slow because i have the time and energy to really go at it, a lot more sucking is involved. But to answer the q, my bf has said that he does prefer blowjobs over handjobs.