Well what does he say when you start going in that direction? Have you talked about wanting to give him head?
im not a huge fan of giving head, but i feel like i should be doing something more. he gets me off at least once by eating pussy and penetration. a lot of times its more than once. yes there have been times when my tongue was sore after. and he just says he just wants to make me happy.
You must start with kissing i think for 7 minutes then u can touch his penis i think he must be ready for a BJ.