Have you ever had oral sex with an opposite-sex partner who you've never had intercourse with? Like Clinton and Lewinsky, or like Veronica in "Clerks", to name some famous examples. Did you usually only give, only receive, or generally both? If you only gave (or only received), was that usually your choice, or the other person's? What about the choice of not having intercourse? How many people have you had just oral sex with, compared with your number of intercourse partners? (Don't give exact numbers unless you want to). Why did you do it, and what did you get out of it? What kinds of relationships or situations did it happen in? Any regrets? Do you still do it? And I have to ask, if you gave bj's in that situation, did you swallow? All other discussion on this subject is welcome too. Yours for science, Jonathan.
On one night, I sucked a guy and then this one girl sucked me. I did nothing else with either of them. Another night, I got sucked by one guy who i did nothing else with. I've only had intercourse with one girl and did nothing else with her.
I'm not going to speak for everyone I know, but for most people I know oral is no big deal. It's just part of the natural "hooking up" process. Go to a party and you'll end up sucking someone off, go on a first date and you'll probably have a penis in your mouth by the end of the night. Among my friends, for everyone one person they've had sex with they've probably blown 5 others.
I agree with Sillybeard, for each pint of beer I have, I suck a chick. Most chicks I know suck two cocks for each breezer they drink. It's routine.
Can I hangout with your fem freinds rofl those are some figures you and Sillybeard got going. I would just be aware of who it is and not just some person out the blue don't wanna get stuck with anything.
Yeah, plenty of times. I usually end up being the giver & being disappointed afterwards (at least with the men I've been with). I've never had intercourse with someone I haven't gone down on, but I've gone down on about 10 more people than I've had intercourse with.
Most of those times, I just received. I can be a total bitch in the sack if I want to be. And guys don't want to look like ass holes so they're all "it's ok, you don't have to." So I didn't. I never feel presured to return the favor. That's just fuckin gross.
i find myself the opposite. i will have sex with someone wearing a condom way before having oral sex.
My first and only boyfriend just sucked... Or rather, didn't. I'd give him head and get nothing in return. Nothing. I think over the course of our three month relationship (I'm awesome, I know) He fingered me maybe four times. And did an ansolutely terrible job. Never fucked 'im. Doubt it would have been very satisfying. I'm hung WAY better than that kid was.
LMAO! With the exception of my first time, when I was fifteen and was forced to do it, I've been in a serious relationship with every guy that I ever went down on. I found sex with previous boyfriends rather boring, and used oral as a way of "getting the guy off of me." And I've always swallowed (again, with the exception of the first time) simply because it's easier than running around with a mouthful of semen, looking for a place to spit it out. R
it feels good to make somebody feel good sometimes even if you don't get any in return, but ya gotta know what your doing if your gonna go down there. the only way to get what you like is to ask for it.
yeah, alot.... for awhile me and my now hubby, then he was just a b/f were on a break and I dated alot of guys but was still inlove with him so I only gave oral I found it hard to have sex with them.
i don't think you're alone on that one buddy. anyway, i'm the weird one here, i've gone down on less ppl than i've had sex with... and i don't like it that way honestly. i love oral and i shoudl have stuck to that rather than trying to have sex.
for the most part the only time i've gone down on someone and thats it is when i'm drunk. not just drunk, but rediculously so. for some strange reason i always wanna suck someone off after a certain point of enebreation. come to think of it, pretty much every drunken escapade has ended with me making a nose dive for someones crotch. lol!
My friend (I guess you could say my friend-with-benefits) and I performed oral sex on each other in his car and we didn't have intercourse. And we still haven't!