My girlfriend and I have been together for a few months. We haven't slept together yet, but she'll be coming to visit me this weekend and stay the night so I anticipate that she and I will have sex. I do have one concern, though. She has a long history of sexual activity. She's admitted she's slept with 10 men, including her ex-husband. (I've only slept with two girls total. We're both 23.) Considering she was once married to a man, I assume she and her ex-husband had sex without protection. I'm going to guess she's had unprotected sex at least once with someone outside her husband. If I go down on her giving her oral, how likely is it that I get STDs considering she's slept with nearly a dozen guys before? Also, if we both give each other oral, then make out, is that safe?
Go for it. Your overthinking it. Kiss her, eat her, (unless her **** stinks) fuck her, in this order. its all good
Small chance of getting std's from oral only if it rely smells or you see white goo or any other type color of goo I'd suggest you tell her to get herself checked anyhow only way you can get std's from oral is when she has syfilis or if she is bleeding and you get it in your mouth and have a open wound otherwise chance is verry small you get an std Also genital wards bud that looks so disgusting I'd guess no body is willing to eat a pussy with them on it...
You can always ask her to go with you to get an STD test if you're that worried. You should get one as well, in that case.
A person can get an std whether they sleep with one person or a hundred. If you are not willing to take a chance then ask her to go and get tested. There is always going to be some risk with people that are sexually active. I feel the risk is well worth it.
Type in "stds" in google and read the first two (from the CDC and Planned Parenthood). Your life. You take the risks.
I sort of agree. You do sound a bit paranoid about it however. With only oral, the bookies would have you as a rank outsider to catch anything except a pubic hair between your teeth ......... but 100:1 longshots have won. Heck every time we jump into bed with anyone who hasn't been completely monogomous we take a risk. perhaps just ask!!!