oral sex: what cooks your noodle?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by browneydgrl, Jan 4, 2005.

  1. browneydgrl

    browneydgrl Member

    guys, im curious. i wanna improve my technique, like any perceptive lover would, on oral sex. what really gets you going, and what are the tricks girls have used on you that make you go wild? what makes a truly memorable, mind blowing blow job?
  2. peacefuljeffrey

    peacefuljeffrey Senior Member

    Gotta be a soft, relaxed, slurpy mouth. Plenty of saliva, very little teeth if any (teeth contact is to be avoided).

    The deeper the better, although it's not the most comfortable thing to feel your cock hitting hard parts within the mouth, so that's an argument for using the front of the mouth not much beyond the head of the cock.

    I'm fond of just about all female-mouth-contact on my cock, actually. To me, it's pretty hard for it to be anything but really good. The issue really becomes about whether the pace and rhythm are sustained enough to bring me to orgasm swiftly. Now, then there's the question of, do I want to orgasm swiftly, or do I want to be played with for a good long time, and teased up and down? Usually YES. But when it's time to finish me off, it has to be long, rhythmic strokes with soft but pursed lips. ...OMG this has got me horny as hell right now! :D

  3. Grim

    Grim Wandering Wonderer

    Well, I'm lucky enough to know a bit about receiving these ;)
    First off, half the pleasure of a BJ for the vast majority of guys is the whole sight and feel of it...getting to just sort of stand/sit/lay there and relax while they watch a prety thing wrapping her lips around their tool gets most guys going pretty hardcore.
    Therefore, sometimes the best enhancement to a BJ is to make it visually pleasing...act it up, make a show of it...

    Also, the deeper the better is usually true...and teeth contact is usually a bad thing, but the more tongue the better in most cases.

    The most sensitive point of the penis is on the underside, just below the head...the right bit of tongue there can do wonders...

    Also, rhythm is a big factor, at least for me. If a girl switches 'techniques' every 5 seconds or keeps pausing to adjust somehow, it makes it tough to really get into it and get off...

    Anyway, the only other thing I can think of is the finish. Guys by and large like to climax inside a girl's mouth, or in the case of some kinky gents, all over a girl's face, chest, etc...this is sort of half mental-stimulation, as it's usually a pretty erotic situation.

    Anyway, there ya go... ;)

    hmm...that's about the most I can
  4. peacefuljeffrey

    peacefuljeffrey Senior Member

    This is not true for me. For me, the most sensitive part is the corona (the back ridge of the head that is what I see when I look down at my own penis).

    Absolutely. I'm sure girls can relate to this in terms of being able to get off from what a guy is doing to them. It's gotta be stable and regular and rhythmic and repetitious for a period, to allow it to happen.

  5. goldmund

    goldmund Member

    The wetter the better, seriously, wetter...and wetter still. Lots of girls think that guys like that a girl can make it tighter with their lips, not true. soften your lips, relax your mouth, and love him!
  6. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

    keep your teeth out of the way
  7. FallenFairy

    FallenFairy Senior Member

    well Im not a guy but i do have a few pointers. It might now be true for all men but I find that my guy loves it when I use my hands while I am giving him a BJ. Also try softly playing with his balls either with your hand or your tongue. Well if you want to tease your man before giving him a BJ you can lightly brush your tongue on his hips or pelvic area that usually drives my guy crazy.
  8. Sheebs

    Sheebs Member

    wow this is exactly what i love when getting oral. Especially the playing with balls part, thats fantastic.
  9. Hanzo Sword

    Hanzo Sword Member

    Another good tactic is gently licking the area right behind the balls (not too far behind - before you reach arse country). That sh*t drives me crazy. The biggest bj turn-on, in my opinion, is enthusiasm. While I can (eventually) get off with a girl bobbing her head up and down and so forth in traditioinal bj fashion, I get way more excited if she really gets into it and starts, like, frantically making out with my piece. I'm talking licking and sucking ALL over (particularly fond of her turning her head and sucking on just the underside right below the head and flicking it with her tounge, or sucking and kissing along the sides of the shaft).

    Damn, I miss bjs. Sucks to be celibate.
  10. MossIcon

    MossIcon Member

    Wow, this post made me realise how all of the girls who have gone down on me have been pretty insufficient. =(
  11. browneydgrl

    browneydgrl Member

    celibate by choice or just no recent luck?
  12. DarkStar

    DarkStar Member

    Im celibate too, no more crazy sex for me. Unfortunately girls have changed in the last 10yrs, IMO.
  13. Hanzo Sword

    Hanzo Sword Member

    By choice (still don't know if it was the right one). My gf is in the Peace Corps for a couple of years. When we started dating I knew she'd have to ship out for her assignment at some point, but we were together for more than a year before that actually happened. So anyway, I'm waiting for her and not seeing anyone else in the meantime. My friends flip me a lot of shit about it, but I love her so I choose to sacrifice sex and physical intimacy for a while.

    EDIT: Celibacy still sucks, though.
  14. browneydgrl

    browneydgrl Member

    that is so cool. i mean, there aren't many guys in your age group (or in any age group) that would be willing to do that. i think it is so special. i can only hope that if i ever have go away for that long, that my boyfriend will do the same.
  15. Well, obviously I've never gotten a BJ before...but I just thought I'd throw in a comment here.

    Guys, I give much better blow jobs when you don't get forceful. I'm talking grabbing of the hair and forcing a pace.

    Don't know if the other girls agree, but yeah. Just mentioning it.
  16. browneydgrl

    browneydgrl Member

    this is very true.
  17. kindwoman

    kindwoman Sista Golden Hair

    Thanks for the tips Jeffrey, I'll remember this when we meet & get married...
  18. divinessence9

    divinessence9 Member

    Well besides doing the sucking, licking and all that right, make sure u swollow, cause thats a turn on. There are porn movies made where they insist that the chick swollows. No cum dodging allowed is the name of one of the movies!
  19. Inavacuum

    Inavacuum Senior Member

    Make eye contact, I love it when my gf is giving me a blowjob and she looks up at me.
  20. 2bad4u

    2bad4u Member

    Licking and sucking of the nuts.
    nice wet wet mouth.
    nice steady but slow pace.
    Faster and deeper the close I get to orgasm
    finish off with a swallow and a smile.

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