oral sex on woman

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by lyle, Jan 30, 2005.

  1. lyle

    lyle Member

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    i am a teenager, and my girlfriend is coming over soon and my parents arnt goin to be here. i think i am ready to give her oral. I have already fingered her and was wondering for some information on oral. 1st what am i mainly doin? sucking, licking.. what? 2nd how long do i need to give oral for it to be good for her? 3rd what kinda position should we be in? also any tips on how 2 would be great. Oh yea and how to i go for it, just take off her pants and panties and lick or what? should i ask first? how should i aproach it?
     
  2. AutumnAuburn

    AutumnAuburn Senior Member

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    Ask her what she wants, what makes her feel good... Go from there.
     
  3. alkaline

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    Assuming you've gone through a good amount of fore-foreplay (har har) I generally start kissing my girl's neck and slowly making my way down her body as I gently move my hands about her figure/massaging her breasts, etc. If her pants are still on I begin working them off. I usually leave her underwear on and just pull it aside since she enjoys the kinkier aspect of it. 'Cause hey ... anything that will make her feel better is worth doing if you really care about your girl. I kiss her inner thighs a lot and begin to place her legs over my shoulders. I love the way she trembles when I do that ... Anyway. As I pull her underwear aside I begin to kiss her around the opening of her vagina and then directly on her clit. Some techniques I use are as follows: sucking her clit into my mouth gently and wiggling my tongue around it; rotating my tongue clockwise and/or counter-clockwise around her clit and changing directions every now and then; rubbing her clit with the underside of my tongue, applying a bit of pressure during it; taking a finger and moving it in a out of her vagina, while still using my mouth (I use this once she's really going crazy ... usually makes her orgasm in seconds); also, flicking the underside of her clit makes her go pretty wild. There's probably more, but I can't recall right now since my mind is wandering... :p
    Her orgasms during oral are like no other. I simply love pleasing her ...
     
  4. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    make sure you ask her what feels good. Not every ten seconds, but ask her if anything felt especially good every few minutes.
     
  5. MetalWarrior

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    WoW!! sorry i found this thread too late!! hahaha . I was going to suggest strawbeery jelly.
     
  6. AT98BooBoo

    AT98BooBoo Senior Member

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    Go check out www.askmen.com This website has all you need to know about sex. It also has other material having to do with relationships,fitness,personal finance etc. Its a website that will help make you a more rounded person.

    Check out Doc Love's article on dating.

    Also check out www.doubleyourdating.com This site has an inexpensive e book you can download for $30.00 Believe me you'll get your money's worth and then some.
     
  7. sugarmaggie

    sugarmaggie ~Green Eyed Devil~

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    Sounds like this man knows what he's doing..;)
     
  8. BudBomb7

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    well man i always had the idea in my head "pimps dont eat pussy" and believe me i was a pimp. until i met this girl. everything changed and after about 3 months of dating i went down on her. i did some research like you and read different ways to do it and they al worked good. www.screammyname.com has some good tutorials
     
  9. lyle

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    thanks for all your help, come to find out she wont be comin over for a week or 2. so i will still take all the help i can get. THANKS
     
  10. love_macheen

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    sorry to say but are you really clueless about this subject?

    im proud to say that i was born with the passion to give the ladies oral and i never needed to ask for help........hmmmm oral

    this is my tip he he i said tip.....go slooowwwwwww DONT RUSH IT
     
  11. _CT

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    what about overstimulation?
     
  12. love_macheen

    love_macheen Member

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    what about it.......dont do it
     
  13. flake

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    shut the fuck up.
     
  14. lostblackdog

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    lol! go flake.. you tell him! anyways, whoever talked about that doubleyourdating shit is right man... i read that shit b/c a roomate had it and he was pissed that it was full of shit. Considering how he seems to fail with the ladies, i figured it was worth it's weight in gold, and i was totally right. You'll find out that the dude who wrote that also sends out newsletters and shit all the time... almost everyday, and they're worth reading because A) he's hilarious, and B) it's full of good questions from fools like you and me, and the dude answers them! Anyways, goodluck with that special lady, and make sure you don't focuss too much on getting that chick off and make sure you get your's as well man! Chicks don't dig guys who wanna do everything for them all the time... take it easy and don't sweat it... your time is gonna cum... be a man, man!
     
  15. Purple_Rhapsody

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    OOOh , yeah ,well, I'm bragging a bit but, Saturday was the first time I've ever had a guy go down on me. I hear all the horror stories about how guys don't know what the fuck they are doing, not the case in our situation. First of, we had massive fore foreplay. Great biting, ear licking, crotch rubbing, breast licking, got 3 massive hickies, one on my breast two above my thigh. He finally asked to go down on me and I turend him down since we were kind of in an awkward position (no details there) but after he asked me again, I gave him permission. I love to be asked, sometimes I love for a guy to take initiative and do stuff though. He went down and just slowly licked my clit, I dont know what exactly it was he did, but, this is some of the stuff he told me he did and I went nuts.
    He sucked my clit into his mouth as hard and as firm as he could. Lapped it up like a kitty lapping up pilk. He sucked my labia into his mouth and found his way into my vagina.
    I'm not sure, I wasn't watching, too busy enjoying it, but thats what he said some of the stuff he did. I loved it
    Oh, one more thing, every once in a while he would come up while still fingerfucking the hell out of me, and he got that "I'm gonna make you scream for more" look on his face as he looked in my eyes. That got me so hot I was bouncing around on the bed!
    Hope to help!
     
  16. BrownTripleQQ

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    I haven't found any man who can do this right!!!!
     
  17. Jointman69

    Jointman69 High Nigga Pie

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    come see me haha

    i wouldnt say im like the worlds best pussy eater, but its not that hard to do.

    miachael explained it well enough. i want to reiterate the stimulation of the g-spot, the little nub inside towards the front of the vagina usually 1 1/2 -2 inches up. use your finger and kinda twirl around it and then kinda of dance across it ya know, like graze it before u go into touching it full on.
     
  18. BrownTripleQQ

    BrownTripleQQ Member

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    Is that right??
     
  19. Jointman69

    Jointman69 High Nigga Pie

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    yeah thats right :p
     
  20. BrownTripleQQ

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    Okay, if you say so.
     

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