Well Dump Him, If That's The Way You Respect Your Partners Likes And Dislikes Then He's Way Better Off Without The Likes Of You.... Cheers Glen.
So, I don't respect him? He has no problem pleasing himself but won't please me, I don't really feel like I'm being the disrespectful one. I also have to add, this is not like the only problem I've had with him. I've been through a lot already and this is just upsetting that he won't do this for me, but he loves ass play. Okay, so feces is fine, but not blood? It's just really strange to me.
Selfish on your part. I had a gf who didn't like jizz, but I didn't get all bent out of shape about it. And that's something that ALWAYS happens with sex, not a few days a month
Yes! It's part of being a woman, so I feel if you want to be with a woman then you accept that part of her. My exes had the same attitude as you and that's what I like in a man. Thank you for not being immature and one sided about it.
Honestly I think you are being the selfish one. Some people get grossed out about stuff like blood, it is just how they are. Yes period blood seems to gross people out more than normal blood simply because it smells much different and it tends to have clots. He should be entitled to say no he does not want to go down on you just like you should be entitled to say no to things. If you want to get off on your period that badly do it yourself.
So then if he wants to get off while I'm on my period, I should tell him to go do it himself? I don't believe it's selfish at all to want my man to please me like I please him. I do whatever he wants sexually and I don't complain, I just enjoy making him happy, but come on please return the favor. I also can get really sick if I don't get off and it's very uncomfortable (happened that night). This guy is not grossed out about blood, believe me. He's into gorey stuff and death, so it makes me even sadder that he thinks my period is that disgusting compared to the things he's into. I think I would just prefer a guy with a different attitude and who treats me better all around.
Or you could see sex as giving pleasure and not just about receiving it. When you're on your period you could consider abstinence or just think about getting him off. There are times during sex when I know I'm not going to come but it don't stop me giving the wife what she wants and needs. I get off on seeing her enjoy herself. It's not all about you and what you can get.
The last thing I would want to see is a womens genitals with blood dripping out during her monthly - grouse.