(sorry for my bad english, it's not my native) Half a year ago my bf told me that my vagina has not good smell. I was wearing trousers that day. He just leaned his face against the vagina. And after some time he blurted that smell is not good. (I don't know what word in english means situation when you say something inadvertently, I think it's "blurt".) When he realised what he had said, he started to convince me that everything is fine down there. There is no bad smell. And I know that my vagina has no smell. Not bad, not good. Just nothing. And its taste is fine. But. I don't know. I can't have oral sex with my bf normally. I just don't believe that he really thinks that everything is good down there. All what I'm thinking about is that he just doesn't like doing "this". That it is disgusting to him. I was trying to believe him. But I just can't. For me oral sex is important, but I cannot have it with him. Do you have any advice?
There are many of us who find the steamy, musky aroma of a vagina & vulva -- especially in full arousal -- to be intoxicating! If you enjoy oral sex, perhaps a different bf ...?
First time I fucked my wife, a high school hook up, I went down and the smell was terrible! I got 2 licks in before coming back up. I don’t know what she changed but she’s always smelled good after that first time and that’s been 34 years.
I always did. Smell is okay. Guys, I just can't trust my bf, I don't believe that he likes doing cunnilingus to me because of the words he said once. He told me many times that everything is fine and he likes it. But I just can't trust him. The only thing what I'm thinking about while he's doing "this" is that he feels bad and it's disgusting to him. I just don't believe that smell was bad to him then, but it's okay to him now.
I can't dump him. He loves me. I love him. It's almost year and a half we together . And I trust him in life. But not in the bed. Not when he's doing cunnilingus. But I want me to trust. I want to have good oral sex without thinking about what he said long ago. I want to believe words he's saying now. That everything is fine.
I'm surprised he's still with you. No offense intended but I have gone down to discover a less than pleasant odor...I continued until we were both pleasured but I never returned again. Good hygene is a biggie with me.
