Oral frequency

Curious how frequently other couples have oral sex, is it a frequent thing? By oral I mean from beginning to end just straight oral - no fucking. Could be for both or just one way for her or him.

My wife and I can't have sex much these days so oral has taken over recently. On my end I'd say on a good week, it'll be 4X bjs/face fucks and 2X pussy eating for her. On a normal week, probably half that. Together 8 years here.

How about you?

Bonus question - if face fucking is a thing for you too, how often does it happen? Every time or it's a special thing?

 

Pretty much every time we have sex.

 

When my wife was still getting her monthly visitor, I got a blowjob from her a couple of times that week. It is a rare occurrence that I’ll go down on her with nothing being done to me.

We engage in very lengthy mutual oral sessions every time we make love. It’s part of the foreplay routine.

Face fucking is not part of our repertoire.

 

What's the difference between a blow job and face fucking?

 

Nice, thanks for sharing. Great foreplay routine

 

To put it simply, blowjob is her pleasing you with her mouth, at her pace and for lack of a better word, she's in "charge" and leads the pace. Face fucking is more of the man moving in and out of a woman's mouth, at his pace, while her head stays still. Can be very mild or more intense. Think of it as him holding her head with both hands while he "fucks" her mouth.

 

I haven't thought of it until I read this post but we probably have more oral than regular sex. I suck him off at least 4-5 times a week and he goes down on me about the same. But we only have sex maybe once or twice a week.

 

My nose is starting to hurt reading this...

 

I agree with mf husband's definition of blowjob vs. face-fucking. I think face-fucking is a bit too violent for the woman - unless she likes it that way. I like knowing she WANTS to please me orally, by a blowjob at her pace. My wife gets really juiced by sucking me, so she does it every time we play, regardless of what direction the love making takes later. We both LOVE oral pleasuring each other, to completion or as a build-up.

 

Try laying on your back

 

We are not into face fucking, its not in our love making repertoire. Sometimes we use mutual oral play as foreplay before fucking and sometimes we do it till orgasm but we always do it unless we only have time for a quickie then it is doggy style.

 

Yea, done that. Actually both. And my nose did hurt. But my god I loved the feeling of him losing control of himself. I guess I did too as I had apparently dug my fingernails into his butt.

 

I lay with my head hanging back over the edge of the bed and my bf stands and facefucks me. When i need to breath i tap his hips. Theres always those moments when it feels so good he doesnt stop right away and ive left nail marks in him too as he takes me to the edge of passing out

 

When I was married we would have oral five or six times a week sex maybe ones a month and that was for about seven years. After we split an it was back to dating fucking wasn't all that I didn't care but oral I was happy.
It took a long time to find a woman that liked oral as much as I do. The woman I'm dating now loves to give head while there is a toy on her clit. Sex is good again..

 

I estimate that 90% of my sexual encounters involve oral sex in some way. Usually i initiate it during foreplay.

 

I like it slow, so we can savor it. In videos, we see women going so fast on a guy that she looks like a woodpecker. That CAN'T be easy or enjoyable for her. It looks torturous - painful for her neck.

I like to take the time to enjoy each other, slowly building over an hour or 2 of oral pleasuring until both of us go off like rockets - her many times (!!!) during that period, and me once or twice. The build-up makes the orgasms feel bigger and more powerful. A variety of vibes make an interesting addition for her while I take my tongue for a slow walk around her sweet spots.

 

Uh, yeah. Can definitely be, especially when he doesn't care...

 

My thoughts are that any man who is fortunate enough to have his penis in a woman’s mouth better care! That is a gift - he should be grateful. Besides, she has teeth!

 

Well stated, erifant!

 

Yes, if she is equally as mean as he is.