tomorrow is john's birthday . he will be turning 30, big one. yippy. here's my dilemma. i want to get him a present. i was gonna get him a journal and Matrix Revolutions. now to me this would be just fine. however, in the course of all this seperation, he misunderstands acts of kindness sometimes. instead of accepting them, he gets pissed at me or else he gets hope. on saturday we had a great heart to heart and are on a good page right now. should i get him a gift or not? i dont wanna mess w/ his mind. i love him, just cant be with him, but still want the best for him and to be friends. is it too soon to give him a gift?