opinion needed

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by mariecstasy, May 12, 2004.

  1. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

    tomorrow is john's birthday . he will be turning 30, big one. yippy.
    here's my dilemma. i want to get him a present. i was gonna get him a journal and Matrix Revolutions. now to me this would be just fine. however, in the course of all this seperation, he misunderstands acts of kindness sometimes. instead of accepting them, he gets pissed at me or else he gets hope.

    on saturday we had a great heart to heart and are on a good page right now.

    should i get him a gift or not?
    i dont wanna mess w/ his mind. i love him, just cant be with him, but still want the best for him and to be friends. is it too soon to give him a gift?
  2. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

    Just get him a card.
  3. StellaBlue

    StellaBlue Senior Member

    Yeah, like olhippie said, just a card. Maybe a gift certificate or something to that effect. :)
  4. cerridwen

    cerridwen in stitches

    I agree. Why be overgiving with someone if it's going to possibly mess with their emotions, or how they perceive you? It's not really healthy.
  5. DoDaMan

    DoDaMan Member

    Hey Marie,
    If you think that buying your ex a gift for his birthday might mess with his head, then defiently would not. I would have Arianna make him a card, paint a rock or some type of craft for her to make for him. I would not buy him anything because it sounds like that he might think that you "want him back". Unless you do want him back...............

  6. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

    I read the whole thing this time because I was gonna say one of the portfolio's of yourself in sexy nightware until I saw that it was a guy that you are trying to brush off so here is the deal. Just get him a card (Not romantic but humorous )and get him a gag gift or a box of nuts. (I don't know why but guys love nuts). Express your friendship and wish him well. ;)
  7. crummyrummy

    crummyrummy Brew Your Own Beer Lifetime Supporter

    buy him a microwave egg poacher and and some of them nifty ultra wide florescent green shoe strings. he wont know what to think.
  8. luvndrumn

    luvndrumn Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

    ...does anyone who posted on November 10, 2004 realize that this thread was started almost six (6) [VI] {1,2,3,4,5,6!!!} months ago???

    Just thought I'd indulge my anal retentive side and point this out.

    So, marie, what did you end up getting the boy? :cool:
  9. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

    i did get him a gift.
    i got him the third matrix movie and oh brother where art thou?
    got him a couple cards too
  10. crummyrummy

    crummyrummy Brew Your Own Beer Lifetime Supporter

    no poacher or shoelaces?

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