Opening up

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by Crunkmonkee9, Dec 12, 2018.

  1. Crunkmonkee9

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    So me and my wife are considering opening up are relationship. Part of me is excited about it and part of me is worried about it. I’m curious if we could go with the flow and let things play or do we need to decided some rules before we start? Any and all input appreciated. Thank you.
     
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  2. Alice in SC

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    Just go with the flow! It has worked for us !
     
  3. ArtyB

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    Just take one step at a time and give it a trial basis
     
  4. VicariousSam2

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    Opening it up how? Are you guys considering having separate partners like an open marriage or just experiment with a threesome bringing in a third? There’s kinda a huge difference that’s why is asked.

    If you wanna just watch her with another guy, take baby steps like having her flirt with some first and see how you feel afterwards.
     
  5. Ozdude

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    It can work, but it needs a lot of discussion beforehand and both parties need to be completely into the idea or someone is going to get jealous and hurt. If one side is just going along with it to keep the other they will be miserable. My wife and I are monogamous.
     
  6. Crunkmonkee9

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    Thank everyone so much already. We have talked it out and take things slow for now.
     

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