Only have had sex twice

And I am 21. The reason is because of the areas I have lived. I'm not heavy set or ugly (don't mean for that to sound mean), but with my job it's just hard to find any good person to date.

First I went to a high school 60 people (seriously). The town only had a population of 1,000. Then when I graduated I took an internship in the Ocala National Forest in FL. I lived in a 5th wheel in the middle of nowhere, and I worked with ATV trails so needless to say there were not too many single women around. Oh, and the only town that I could really go to was a retirement town (Salt Springs).

Then I worked for a conservation corps on a trail crew in Flagstaff, AZ. That is where I did have sex, twice. I was 19 when I had my first.

Then I moved to Kentucky to do an internship at the Red River Gorge as an Back Country Ranger. The town I lived in was no good for women. But the Gorge brought all kinds of beautiful women from all over the world for the climbing opportunities. However, it also brought their boyfriends along with them. I did meet one great girl there. She was hiking while I was on the job, also hiking, ha. We talked for awhile, found out she was traveling through, and I asked her out for a dinner date.

We had a great time while she was around for the next few days, I went back to the hostel with her, then the next night she came back to my place where I was staying. We fooled around a lot, but never had sex. I don't push things, so I was cool with that. If I had pushed it, I could have probably had sex with her, but now we’re still friends, so I like that.

Now I work for the US Forest Service in AZ, and the town I live in is extremely lame. I 'm 5 hours from Flagstaff. This town, the women are either in high school, or are pretty much in a dead in their life (I do have my standers). It's also a military town, so the hotties that are around are usually married.

So the thing is, I have passed up on opportunities while I was in high school, and have just had bad luck with areas since. So since I'm 21, is having sex only twice in my life such a terrible thing? I don't dread over it, but i know i could have more sex if I look for it more, but I don't most of the time mostly because I'm not used to it, if that makes any sense haha.

Oh, and I can't just leave my job because it's horrible for my sex life, I just need to find a good town where there is a FS ranger station, and actually get the job that’s in that station. easier said than done, ha, but I do love my job.

Any tips or suggestions?

P.S, I feel just a tad bit awkward with posting this on here, but what the hell right

 

Btw, I know I'm a newbie on here but I'm not going anywhere. So please don't do-not respond to this just because I have very little post

 

if you're just looking for sex, just bang one of the local dead-enders.

 

sounds like you have your life going in a very cool direction?...man i always thought those forest ranger/trail heads did good with the ladies.....this is a good place to meet girls...if you have an accent i know one hottie looking lol...you have been moving from one job and state to the next..you need to take 2 months after this job and hang in a big city for a bit..get a temp job at a rock climbing store...tons of gash

 

I don't want to just bang a loser-girl, although maybe that's what I need eh?

And the Forest Ranger thing does do well, when I'm at the bars. Problem with that is that I’ll make out with a girl, hang out with her, but I'll never go home with a girl.

And yeah my life is going exactly where I want it to go, and I have worked hard toward it so I'm pretty happy with it

Oh and the times that I do go home with a women, I haven’t had sex with them, more less just fooled around. I leave up too much to the women I guess? I am what you would classify as a nice guy, but maybe I’m too nice sometimes?

And I have never gone with an ‘easy’ women, they’re just not my type. I am very attracted to the outdoorsy type.

 

you are not a closer...neither was i till i went through a too long dry spell...i'm still not as heartless as my buds that get laid lol

 

I suggest try finding someone around the surrounding towns, possibly threw the internet or socializing more. Also you could just try moving some place that isn't full of a bunch of pig f^^^ers

 

I could, but I'd have to move somewhere with a forest around. And a job opening :/

It's tough to find a good town to live in while working for the Forest Service

 

I'm becoming more and more convinced that in this day and time the internet is the way to meet people. Bars are passe - there's just not a lot of interaction to meet new people. Maybe someone will give the name a dating service that treated them right. Good luck man. Folks need folks.

 

You'll meet someone. Everything happens the way it's supposed to.

 

Sounds like that's the problem. You can still be a nice guy and go after what you want. Women seem to like men who know what they want and go for it.

 

what if he's not supposed to meet someone?

 

That's not cool! haha

 

Well I guess it'd be unfortunate?

 

It only matters that you've had sex twice if it bothers you.

 

That's the thing, it doesn't bother me. Only thing I worry about is that when I do find a women that I'm going to sleep with (rather it be a one night casual, or more), I'm worried about my 'skill' level. haha

 

Just watch some porn and learn technique. Also, if you get the chick drunk, she probably won't notice if you are lacking skill between the sheets :2thumbsup:

 

Beer helps!!
Before]After

 

I don't think they'll mind too much, you have to learn what people specificallhy like more than just a general rule of skill.

 

AH HA! I laughed so hard at this! Won't let me rep you though. So instead I'll give the Fonz thumbs up :2thumbsup: