One of the reasons I am enjoying my bi adventures so much , is that it is so "no hastle". My special friend called me this morning and told me that he had a meeting in NYC and wanted to know if I would be around later. He stopped by and had a pizza with him. We had a couple of slices, talked , then gave each other bjs in my garage. No muss, no fuss, pizza and a bj.
yeah, that's not really about your sexuality in terms of gay, straight or bi. it's about an open friendship with benefits. dave and i have had these sorts of relationships in the past and they're wonderful. becoming friends is much more difficult than finding sexual partners. you've wandered into something wonderful. cherish it. friendships like that don't come along every day. *sigh* i'm really missing our old friends in farmington, though we've begun and nurtured a similar relationship here. the only problem for us right now is distance and child care.
How many married guys have a special friend that they are bi with, or have thought about some sort of bi play? There is only one person that I have ever been close enough to, that I would take the chance to have that experience. It was actually living out an adult fantasy. Have you had that deisre or experience?
I was actively Bi before I got married. Since then i have been faithful to my wife and I have not met many men I have been attracted to. One man does stand out, we were in the Army together and although we live far apart now, we continue to be good friends. He is the only man I have met who I would have gotten on my knees for the first day I met him. My wife is aware that I have had a crush on him for years.
Last night, my friend came in from out of town to check on his mothers house, after the heavy rains. With everything ok, he called me and told me that he misses me since he moved and since he was here, he wanted to meet with me. My wife was out shopping and I haven't had a bj, since his last visit, so I happy to accept his invitation. Since he is the only one I ever did anything bi with, I was just as pleased to see him, to have some fun. Is there another word for a "booty call" for men?
I've always thought of it as just "friends with benefits". And I'm sure people still "booty call", I don't think that's going to go away.
I don't understand; you were cheating? Do you feel bad about it? I'm really not being judgemental, just curious. Do you sometimes prefer a man more than a woman? Does it depend on your mood?
