One-Night Stands

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by Naiwen, Mar 5, 2014.

  1. Naiwen

    Naiwen Member

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    Did you ever have any one-night or not? I never did since I'm a virgin, although I don't understand why people would go for one-night stands.
     
  2. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    I never have; cause I'm with my one and only and we're exclusive.

    I have very mixed feelings on them; I see their use, and even a certain eroticism in them, but I also see their risk of disease and awkwardness.

    I think a one night stand with a friend or acquaintance you trust could be pretty awesome though.
     
  3. YouFreeMe

    YouFreeMe Visitor

    I never have.

    But I don't see why we should even give them a second thought. If you both want to sleep together and are prepared to do it somewhat safely, then no harm.
     
  4. Karen_J

    Karen_J Visitor

    Because they can. :cool:
     
  5. jimandjan

    jimandjan Member

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    If you are a virgin, that explains why you don't understand. Get out and have some good sex, and you might change your mind. Sex can be good, and helps to relieve tension.
     
  6. Sallysmart

    Sallysmart Raynstorm Serenade

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    Sometimes it's over lust and a moment of weakness and it happens, quite often regrettable after and that's life. Best to make sure you think of yourself and what it will mean to you later, if the time is taken to think about it then it probably won't happen.
     
  7. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    Yes have had them in the past. Found that for me they are not really my thing. I get so much more from being with someone I have a real connection with. if others dig them then all the power to them.
     
  8. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    I've never really done it purposefully. It happened a couple times when I was younger due to my own naivete, I think it was also, not planned on the part of the guys, but it was pretty likely despite that it was unintentional.
     
  9. LetLovinTakeHold

    LetLovinTakeHold Cuz it will if you let it

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    Sex is fun. You can't hoard fun, it has no shelf life.
     
  10. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    I'm a guy, I got horny and a gal said yes. I don't regret it but like I said I'm a guy.
     
  11. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    I also have no regrets...good experiences, just a little confusion, due to my complete innocence at the time. I don't think I could ever do it intentionally though. Sometimes I think about it, with a friend, but since I care about the guy, I don't want it to effect our friendship, so I don't think I ever would.
     
  12. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    ^^^There is only one thing.. in regards to every single thing I've ever done on every topic imaginable (literally, one thing for every single action of my entire life) that I have ever regretted. And I'm not about to say what it is...lol. But no, other than that I don't do regrets.
    And also when not in a relationship or when my relationship has been open in the past, if I felt like sleeping with somebody, okay then.... it's not a big deal to me.
    So, hm, what was the original question? What's the point? If you wanna do something and it doesn't bother you, what's the point not? Even though I'm sure the OP is either a :troll: or about 10 years old. :D
     
  13. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    Probably a troll, yeah...but it's really disturbing to think about 10 year old kids on here asking questions like that. At the same time, almost directly before I had my first one-night-stand I probably would've had the same judgement/lack of understanding. Well, maybe a year beforehand anyway...or a couple years. Which would've made me about 16 or 17.
     
  14. AmericanTerrorist

    AmericanTerrorist Bliss

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    My kids will be monitored on the internet. Have you heard of that show on ID "Web of Lies"? Yea, that show is why.
    Anyways... yea prolly about 10 years old... I remember how 12, 13, 14 yr olds were when I was that age... And I think a ten year old today is like.. in the past, a 13 year old. Shrugs.
     
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    I got this at hotel liquidators furniture store for free. I think the tires are trying to hit that shit.
     
  16. silk896

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    To quote Frank Sinatra, "...I've had a few,"

    Why not?

    I'm single, they were single (mostly) Two people enjoyed each others company and transferred a few bodily fluids.
    No harm done except the motel/hotel sheets needed laundering.
     
  17. mmmylmz

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    Silk i am absolutely agree with you. Sex is fun and there are lots of things to discover in other people's nature. I consider it as a continuation of a meeting and chatting with someone new. After the night there maybe a second time, who knows. :)
     
  18. calgirl

    calgirl Senior Member

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    Its spontaneous and impulsive sometimes followed by regret and sometimes not. Most of mine are when i was drunk.
     
  19. buzzgunner

    buzzgunner 180 grains of diplomacy Lifetime Supporter

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    I've never had a one-night stand. While I wouldn't turn one down if it was with the right lady, I doubt it would end up as JUST a one-night stand. My attitude has always been that if she's good enough to fuck once, she's good enough to fuck many times!
     
  20. monkjr

    monkjr Senior Member

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    Nah it's not that disturbing, I used to be one of those people going into gaming chats and servers and gaming, and stirring the pot of topics or knowledge that would make the older parties "cringe".

    At the end of the day it's just knowledge, and jokes. It only becomes a concern if personal information is shared, and/or if the person who is posting doesn't have a good separation in understanding the difference between truth/fiction, real stuff/nonfiction and unreal/fake/fantasy/fiction.





    I share this view myself too.

    I will also add that usually, I also like to spend time with a lady other than just having sex if I find that they are worthy to have sex with in the first place. Are you the same way?
     

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