I don't believe that there is only one person you can ever truly be in love with, but that's just me.
i thiiiiink if u "lost your shot" then he/she probably wasnt your one true love. thinking that is also a good way not to dwell on it forever. say u meet someone u have good chemistry with and it ends up not working for w/e reason, no one can know what would have happened if it had worked. so its just wishful thinking to go "he/she was my true love".
Isnt your "true" love the person you meet and spend the rest of your life with? If its someone you spend a couple of years with then that isnt "true" love is it?
Sure it is. I spent two years with a boyfriend. I loved him, don't think I'll ever stop. But we didn't "work" together. We both lived in Florida, I moved to BC, he moved to New England. Even after two years together (and truly loving one-another) we knew that we weren't 'forever'. He wouldn't be happy living here, I wouldn't be happy living there... it wouldn't have been the right thing to do. So, if I say I loved him and always will, does that mean that I can't really love my husband? Does that mean that Andrew could come along any time, say "I decided I do want to live here with you" and I'd go for it because I'll always love him? No way. I love my husband, always will, nothing's gonna stop that. Andrew and I just weren't right for each-other. Different lifestyles took us in different directions. My husband and I are definitely okay... he grew up here and doesn't have any big plans to ever move out of BC, I don't care if I never even get out of this town, and certainly don't want to leave BC, and some day we'll raise a couple kids here. I love Andrew, but I love my husband and we work good together. So no, I don't think there's only ONE true love for us out there. Anyone who's been in a long-term relationship that ended on good terms can tell you that.
Like the other posters have pointed out, I have no clue what "true love" is. That being said, I feel a sense of loss very often... In a more general way: I feel my relationship with women is usually much, much poorer than it need be. And that social norms, and general discomfort/fear of interpersonal contact are at the root of it all. It never ceases to amaze me how faithfully women play the assigned social role of rejecting a priori. Without any sense that maybe they would have lost a chance for a rewarding relationship or interaction. But I guess men's social role as initiators make them cheap in women's eyes. Whenever you're certain that another guy will follow the other's trail, it's easy to reject and think there will always be another. Men are expendable. And it makes me sick to my stomach.
I believe that there is one person for you, though most everybody goes their seperate ways, I believe their are paths that go side by side forever, soul mates, After the first girl I fell in love with, I thought I might have missed my chance, thought Id never fall in love again, but then I met another girl, and again I felt like I messed it up and missed my chance, then I met another girl, and again I am thinking I have missed my chance, but Ill keep looking anyway, I believe there is someone for me somewhere, and if someone somewhere else is thinking the same thing, a female that is, and I find her, then it would be true, true love is made by the lovers, stick together, dont sell out for the many sluts, Id gladly lose me to find you,
I dont believe that. You just live your life and things happen, for whatever reasons are coincidental.
Treadge, i read two posts by you tonight lol. you sound like me but a male. i didn't think there was any guys that truely felt like this. like i said in the other thread i wish you the best of luck and i hope you find that person. maybe i'll find my person also. no matter how much my heart gets broken i still believe the same as you do, there is someone out there somewhere. i hope i find that person soon.
No. I think it's too limiting to say that only one person can be your "true love". What if your "true love" lived someplace you'll never go and you'll never ever cross paths? I think there are people all around the world that one could love and be very compatible with, you know?
well I truely believe that people come into your life for a reason, and if it's ment to be it's ment to be.. I think everyone will find true love maybe even more than once... I honestly believe that you have one soul mate and maybe even by the craziest chances you'll find him/her.
I think I am gonna be ill. mindfucker. I think some people arrive to make you a better person... And sometimes being with them does the trick. I've been in love three times. Real, undeniable chemistry type love... Unfortunately they all have happened simultaneously, and this has left me in a shambles. By simultaneously, I mean two at a time twice... and yet the feelings never go away. It's haunting. Never before has a feeling been so great and so haunting at the same time... But sometimes it takes being ripped apart to become whole again.
