I have written a couple of thread about a relation in which I have been in and have had numerous problems with. It's been six monthes and just when I think the bad times are behind me and she has turned over a new leaf she does something else crazy. The day before my birthday she stated a few fights out of now where. The thing is people told me that she was going to start shit because she wouldn't be the center of attention not sure if that was it but she started shit the night befor. Then the day of my b-day we are up and getting along and she doesn't even mention a "happy birthday" or anything. She has the nerve to ask me to cook for her as the we didn't finish cooking the diner the night befor because not once but twice she flew into a rage and went to bed only to come out resume cooking and start another fight where she flew off the handle and ran into the room. Each year my mom likes to take me somewhere it's been a tradition when nobody else has made any plans and had my girl made some plans or wanted to do anything I would have gone with her but she didn't even buy me a damn card. Now I know she had money because she has been buying shit left and right and wanted to go to a hair aptment the day before. So I include her into plans with my family to go out and go to dinner and she declines and I take her home and the whole way there she sits in silence. When we get to her place she gets out and closes the door without a goodbye. I jump out and once again ask her if later maybe she would join us and she rolled her eyes and went inside and I haven't heard from her since. Suggestions?
We do have good times but she just flips the fuck out for no damn reason and acts like she doesn't give a shit you never know when she is just gonna go off it's fucking crazy man
what is that famous line about the definition of insanity being doing the same thing over and over again but expecting a different result?
What kind of gf doesn't even gets you a card or even just tells you happy b-day when she wakes up in your bed and wants you to make her lunch when you have plans to go out?
brother you have no idea thats my take on things. every fight ends with her telling me how 2o guys are waiting to be with her
It seems to me man that you should also be to blame in this situation. I know it is her fault for treating you like this but it is your fault for allowing it to continue. I would carry on without her tell her that this wont work and no matter what she says or does don't go back. Believe me man JUST RUN
yeah....youre probably gonna move on....but as someone said earlier, "grow a pair" first. stand your ground. you'll feel much better about yourself if you do. no one should ever, ever treat you that way. i dont care how "young and hot" you think she is, it will only get worse from here.....maybe next time she says there are 20 guys waiting to be with her, you should offer her a ride to the nearest one and be done with that nightmare.
GET OUT FAST!!!!! If you stayed in that relationship with her I would expect she'd no sooner wake up Christmas morning with a knife in your back...literally. If you like pretty young things fine, there are OTHERS out there that meet your 'type' but I can assure you the girl your with now does not meet your 'personality' type. Break up with her ASAP, no warning, just disappear and maybe leave her a note, change all your locks, passwords, etc...