Once a cheater always a cheater?

What are you thoughts about people cheating in a relation?
Do you think once a cheater always a cheater?

 

naw, "once a cheater, always a cheater" is too harsh a judgement... some people change their ways...... but of course some don't....


It's all about how well you know (and can trust) the person your with.... or yourself!

 

always is a damn long time

but it takes ages to rebuild trust after such a big betrayal, imho

 

i say yes. once a cheater.. always a cheater.

ive seen it happen too many times to think otherwise

 

Once a whore, always a whore?

 

Hummm, good question. I would like to think that people can learn from their mistakes.

 

In what context are we talking?

A married couple and one of them cheats?
High school kids "going together" and one of them kisses another person?

I feel there is a difference.

As a 17 year old kid, yeah, I fooled around a bit on a couple of boyfriends. But I am in my 30's and have been married for years and would never dream of betraying that trust.

 

once a cheater always a cheater is not necessarily true, people can change, but it is hard to just trust them after wards.

 

people can deal with their issues and stop cheating. i dont know if it's possible to actually repair a relationship where there's been cheating though. probably, but it would take a reallllllllllllllly long time and a lot of work to rebuild trust.

 

People change. Then again, some people never change....

 

Depends on the person. Sometimes people just might make a mistake, others...take it to an extreme...so I think it depends.

 

As One not particularly fond of absolutes,
let's say there is some Truth in

"When I see a bird that walks like a duck and
swims like a duck and quacks like a duck,
I call that bird a duck."
-- James Whitcomb Riley

 

Do you have some kind of study that proves that?

 

I think cheating is an addiction, once you get the taste of it, it is difficult to give up. But on the other hand cheating is bad! But aren't bad stuff more attractive to people?

 

Ok - I didn't read the two pages - I guess once an unreader always an unreader - HOWEVER - I do have answers... If the person who cheated on you and you really love him (assuming he's a male) - have him castrated. If you buy a dog around the same time, the vet might even give you a discount of two for one. The guy won't have the balls to cheat on you anymore - sorta say...
Good luck kiddie and if your chummy feels bad about it, keep those balls on your car mirror - it's the new trent over here...

 

do you have a study to disprove that?

 

Ruski? Isn't that some sort of winter dog in Siberia? Anyway, let's not get into nihiliste arguements here... Then he other fuck is gonna say do you have a study to disprove my disprove one? Like you can never say there ain't no white crow until the day you see one then it's proven there are some although we've never seen any since George Washinton lit a fart on his ass. It's called the negation arguement, like there are no saucers, there is no god but you say you just haven't seen them... What does ol'uncle Friend say about that? There are flying fucks going around - yep - you just haven't seen them, you can't disprove that now, can ya?

 

i just thought your question was a bit dumb. of course there are going to be ppl who do and dont.

 

That was some way out reply, that'll show not to fuck with you...

 

No, but I'm not the one who made the original statement.