OMG! Why me I'm so embarressed!

I'm sure this sort of thing has been posted on here before but I have a regular fb. We tried anal last night and it went really well. I've done it before but only once. When he withdrew he said oh no I've got shit on my dick. I need to clean it quick! I grabbed some wet wipes and did it for him. I laughed I thought it was funny but at the same time I was really embarressed. I feel sooo bad, I thought I was clean but clearly not. he kind of laughed a bit. I made a joke saying it's the price of admission. But really, Im not sure he'll return after that. Surley that would put a guy off and they wouldn't come back after that happend. Has anyone else experienced this? Would it be something that would put him off enough that he wouldn't come back?

 

Apparently it happens all the time. Guys don't care....they love anal.

 

he'll be back.
it's really not that big of a deal in my opinion. accidents happen.
I'm sure he understands that.

 

I'm feeling somewhat better. Glad I could come here to ask. It was his first time, he kinda freaked a bit but he settled he gave me a big hug and said he'll see me very soon. If he doesn't I'll know why.

 

It's not your fault, beautiful. You can't control your bowel completely and get every little bit out. He will be back and if he doesn't... well it's his loss.

 

Thanks for your replies.. He was supposed to come over earlier and didn't but who knows.. Oh well plenty of fish

 

Happened to me many times over the years - it's unavoidable, but easily solved with a wash afterwards. Nothing that would ever stop me going back.

 

where the term :fucked the shit out of you: come from.. Live it..

 

Aww you guys are awesome! Thanks. I guess it was him getting stressed about it caused my own anxiety but I'm fine now. xoxo

 

Your guy shouldn't be shocked to get some shit on his dick when having anal.
That's like going to the zoo and being shocked to see animals!!

Getting shit on your dick is no big deal it's not gonna hurt him or make him sick.
When he finishes have him wash his dick and pee.

Sounds like he was being a baby to me IMO.

 

PS

if it's that big a deal to y'all do an enema before.

 

Unprotected anal is just friggin stupid, no matter how much you think you trust him

 

The shit on the dick is a rookie experience. People find out the hard way that enemas should always precede anal sex. Of course, the more extreme experience calls for the girl to suck her own shit off his dick, but that is an advanced anal sex pleasure.

 

Let's just say that's subjective

 

Better on his dick than on his tongue I say.

 

it cums with the territory.

 

he'll be back. i'm sure of it. well it happened to me several times. but i still came back for my ex ass. i dont care about the shit (it's normal though). i do care much about the pleasure that an ass can give to me. so why bother. i think most of men think that way

 

His loss if he doesnt come back.
We have anal fairly regularly and it has happened once or twice. Its no biggy.

 

Enema, enema, enema!

I totally get your embarrassment. I used to be super self conscious about making a mess. I always used to check myself with a finger in the bathroom before anal. It worked and it prevented embarrassing moments, but I was still never able to relax and enjoy anal. Since anal usually gave me the sensation of needing to go to the bathroom, I always felt like a disaster could happen at any moment. That made me super tense about it. Now anal is so much a part of my sex life now that I just plan for it and prepare for it. I flush myself clean with an enema before ever having sex (with a few exceptions). Trust me, this makes all of the difference in the world. No messes, and I can totally and completely relax. Now when I have the sensation of needing to go to the bathroom during anal (which is very rare now that I am used to it), I feel so much better knowing that despite the sensation there is nothing inside to come out. Seriously, I swear, worrying about messes is what I think keeps most women from really getting into it.

 

That is simply an eventuality of the act. Unless you go well out of your way to clean things out. And that just seems like a pain.

Having a shower near by makes it not much of a big deal. It happened to my friend and I just a few weeks ago. Didn't stop us from enjoying it the next time we were together. And my freaky side definitely didn't mind. lol

Besides if having that happen and you keep on trucking just the same isn't a way to show your gal how much you enjoy her, I don't know what is. hehe