OMG kill me

Andy's parents no longer want to get a hotel...they want to stay with us. his mom and dd and TWO teenage boys. Andy put his foot down, and they still insisted on staying with us.
And, his sister, who I was lookign foawrd to seeing is no longer coming with them because she has to work on Sunday.

 

do it yourself, i dont want the cops after me for anything else!

 

I'm so happy for your Christmas!

i'm happy no ones coming for mine.

 

Come on show some backbone sport


Hotwater

 

oooh thats scandalous

 

He must not have put his foot down very hard. Do you even have room? Where will they all sleep?

 

The In-laws the fucking sofa which folds out into a bed


Hotwater

 

he did TWICE. First politley (last week) and today firmly.
We have a three bedroom, but all of our space is occupied. Andy and I have seperate bedrooms (I can slee with Andy and just not sleep well, don't have a problem with that), but the third room houses my clothes and sewing machine...and it's a mess with craft stuff and pins etc (I sew hours everyday and am the only one that goes in there, so it's a mess)
So now, after I just got done cleaning my bathroom, steam cleaning the living room, vaccuming and doing laundry now have to clean my room and my giant mess of a sewing room 'just in case'.
which means Andy, who just got work and is grovery shopping now has to come home and clean his room and bathroom after working all day, going to the gym, playing racketball and grocery shopping.
Not to mention I have TWo treatmeant plans I need to do this weekend, Case notes due a day early this week (meaning Sunday for the holidays), a meeting and a training Monday morning and then two appoiutments...
see the thig is, if they called a few weeks ago, said they were coming, gave us clear plans etc...no problem. If they really didn't want to stay in a hotel I would tell them to bring an aero bed for Andy's brothers and they could have my bed and I'll sleep with Andy, but NO plans, no clear plans, days or times.
PS-Andy I am sorry if anything I said here offends you. I love your family but I also think this is very unfair, to both of us.

 

I will kill you as long as Andy and your family sign a contract which guarantees that they will not press charges and get the state to sign it.

 

I am sorry my posts are so illeterate. it's just i have a really bad anxiety disorder, recently tappered off most of my medication and the thought of four people I hardly know staying with us petrifies me.

 

I'm not going to call his parents. My husband's competent. There's nothing really that I can do that he can't regarding this.

 

you know, when i dont take my anxiety meds, i have trouble communicating too.

 

I thought he prefered to be called Andrew instead of Andy.

 

aerghhh we got in a huge fight over this last night. I ended up taking the rest of one of my bottles of xanax -the rest from October's script (I think there were like 7 pills left). I just dumped them in my mouth and chewed.
The thing is, I don't feel comftrable around men. The idea of 3 grown men staying in my home freaks me out.
Andy finally got this and they are def staying in a hotel, whether they have booked one or not.
I was ready to pack my shit and leave and go to San Diego for the holidays, but Andy took my keys and we worked it out.
Everything's fine now, but last night sucked and now I have a major xanax hangover from it all.

 

My offer still stands.

 

lol,too fucking funny..

 

If you hadn't already resolved the issue, I'd say not to clean. Dirty the place up a bit more and make it uncomfortable for them to stay there. Fuck it. You told them that it would be best if they'd stay in a hotel, let them make the choice.

But it's already resolved....so dance naked happily.

 

Are you kidding we’re fun; Pizza, Beer and MNF, texas hold’em on wednesday nights, barbequing while you entertain the guests, tossing around the nerf ball, shooting hoops, tag football games, shooting the shit while you and the girls chat up a storm


hotwater

 

Lynsey I'm sorry your dealing with this crap...

Just think it will be over soon!

 

that's the idea I told my mom I was going to do and she shamed em and said "I didn't raise you like that'.
): bummer