Hope this open to us guys too.. My first time, I was 16 and she 35. Later at 25 , I spent some time with a woman that was 60.
Suprisingly, it wasn't that complicated. One of my grandfathers lived with us and he was semi-mobile. He had pretty much given up on life when his wife of 76 years had passed a little while ago. My family got in touch with an agency to bring in a caregiver. They wanted my grandfather to be more active and they thought it would raise his spirits some. I was on homebound instruction at the time. (Homebound is when the school district sends teachers to your home to keep you up to date on your lessons.) So I spent a lot of time at our house and subsequently, chatting with the caregiver. We had a lot of interests in common and spent quite a bit of time talking. Meanwhile, my grandfather wasn't always comitted to working each day and even when he was, he often took a few hours to get up and into the living room. I was usually attracted to older men anyway, and I was very attracted to the caregiver. The romantic and sexual aspect just grew. It carried on for months, by which point I turned 15. It was only later that things got messy. But that's a whole different story. No harm, no foul.
She was 27 Me 21 My current gf is about to turn 25 Me = almost 22 I'm currently flirting with a 31yr old