Older or younger?

ive only ever dated people younger than myself, not by choice just turns out that way. not much younger though....

 

Younger. I like to date people who are still fetuses. That way they can't judge me.

 

:shrug:

I suppose I'd be okay with someone marginally older, I'd want them to be within a certain margin of error if only because if we ended up getting married then it would be awful for her to die years before me, I'd be okay with marginally younger too, but I don't think I could do creepy younger......

it works for some people, but I get hung up on stuff like that......

maybe when I'm older and it's somewhat less creepy I'll be less hung up, who knows.....

 

older

 

exactly, same here!

 

in general, older because i dont have time for someone that doesnt have their s hit together in life.

 

Usually older, but then, from me late teens me circle of friends were typically 5+ yrs older than me......so it ain't no big surprise

Although now i'm gettin' older meself.....pretty soon the buggers will have zimmerframes!

 

older, bigger, smarter, stronger-willed. i like it that way.

 

Both, depends on the person...

And I'm sorry to say so but I think some of you people sound a bit stiff...
"I want a mature person"... The minute you become mature "an adult" your mind decays, you give up the battle to create your own world, you accept rules and become just an other bee in the hive...

Only through the eyes of a childish spirit can we change the world

 

typical teenager response.

 

my bf is younger, not by much at all but he is.. and yeah, that was a nice fun fact huh..
anyway to the question.. I would date someone younger(not by much) and someone older (not by much) but if I clicked with them and there wasnt a huge difference in our age, I would still date them..
but to each their own...

 

Older... I'm an alcoholic.

 

Typical bitch response...

Newsflash, I am a fucking teenager... Atleast I'm not trying to be anything I'm not, but sorry for questioning society, if teens weren't as we are children would have no rights and still be smacked around in school...

 

Probably bring up SAT scores.

 

I like them older.

 

hahaha......from the mouths of babes

immaturity is often complimented with creativity.......albeit pointless and productiveless creativity (go wander Young Hippies forum for a while, yer'll see wot I mean) Everything in the world you see, from the horrors of Belsen to the beauty of Michalangelo's art...is the product of our mature "lobotomised" creativity

why do people find maturity attractive? simple....immaturity might be fun....but after a while...it's truly fucking boring

 

It's not about maturity as much as it is about security. Women like to be comfortable knowing there guy isn't going to take a bunch of drugs with his friends, and drive 5 hours for a cock fight.

You can try to explain it, but girls usually want a 'reason' for what you do. It's probably just a phase.

 

Well direct immaturity is always a bore, but I believe that everything beautiful in this world... Even if made by a "mature person" comes from the childish spirit...

An all around mature person would never be able to create anything beautiful...

To me, the reason why people find mature persons more attractive is because we live in a sick world...

"Immature" persons have more fun around other of their own, than mature persons around others of their own, so why are we all in such a hurry to grow up?

I know mature persons created the world we live in, but this world is making us slaves too... It's a mind prison

 

exactly...

 

see, typical. you think that since we're wanting emotional maturity that we're belittling you personally. as a teenager, i don't think you yet understand the appeal of maturity. maturity doesn't mean rigidity, but i truly don't hink you're mature enough to understand the concept. you're a teenager. we were all there once. and i forgive you for calling my response bitchy in your zeal to stand tall.