older men and other questions...

I'm 20 attending college at the moment and I was wondering if it's weird that I'm only attracted to white older men, roughly around 35-45 years old. Something about their rough/rugged skin and gray hair I find extremely attractive.

Also how do you guys go about asking guys who you don't know are gay or not in everyday life for a date? I see tons of extremely hot older men walk past me left and right and I want to ask them so badly to go out for lunch etc but I'm afraid I'll get punched in the face or something.

Lastly, can you train yourself to deepthroat or is it just some skill that some can do and some can't? Becuase I already have trouble brushing my teeth and gagging while trying to brush my tongue lol.

 

Find yourself a nice twink and marry him. He'll be like that eventually.

But seriously, nah, it's not weird.

 

No, not weird.

I've never had a problem going up with age, when I was 18 went out with a guy that was 45 for a couple of months, he was rather fine.

I wouldnt worry too much about a negative reaction, a lot of straight guys get over some issues after 30 (if you take a close look at what 30+ women look like you'll work out why ).

Just wear a tight shirt and do the stare thing, if the stare back last more than 3 seconds or he gives you an up and down look most likely he's up for some man on man action at some level, or at least he aint going to get all weird if you go up talk to him

 

lol aes...thanks vanilla, i'll try that.

 

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its not weird at all...i'm a straight girl and i'm definitely more attracted to older guys.. i've actually seen scientific data that says that men get more sexy as they grow older (to a point of course)

 

@calisouth If it was going really well I would try to keep it going as long as he let's it continue. Age doesn't matter, I'd love to be with someone who I can wake up to every morning and just be happy.

@Annajane Yes they certainly do and I looooooooove it!

 

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I've always been attracted to older men, but not the rugged type like you like... I personally like the "business men" types who are clean cut and wear expensive suits.

 

I am the same way! the first guy I made out with after coming out/college was 35

i am 21

 

Drop the 'weird' when it comes to your sexual and emotional attraction. It is your life, and you are calling the shots. If someone thinks that this may be weird, cool, let that be their issue and not yours. Your job is to achieve your happiness, and not to worry about the opinion of the others. The othes won't be there when you need them, and nope, they won't pay your rent either...

Present gay culture cherishes the idea of mating with your peers. This is largely a commercially motivated marketing ploy. The more guys fit into a neat pigeonhole the lower the marketing cost. We are talking your life here...

When you come to think about it, you are actually in for a great ride.

Relatively few young guys are into 'older' dudes. This makes you a desirable catch, no matter how you look at it, be it a casual hook-up or an LTR.

Being with someone significantly older facilitates a powerful exchange of ideas, plans, attitudes. You have got the energy, the look, the drive. The older dude may have loads of experience, good networks, self-esteem based on his life success. Once you start exchanging those substances, both of you will be significantly enriched.

KD

 

I love older men like Anderson cooper omg... and I am 18, so I don't think it's weird. There are many guides on deep throating online, but I can't find the one I had which didn't involve sticking something in your mouth. It was basically just opening your mouth as much as possible and pushing your tongue down and just breathing or something. I forgot but you can look for it. It creates a sense of almost gagging and over time you won't gag.

 

Not strange at all. I've always been more attracted to older dudes. Of course, now that I'm getting older: it becomes a bit more complicated. It seems like the gay ideal is youth and beauty. And I'm just an average fortysomething dude.

 

Although ive never been with a man, Ive always dreamed about older guys. Even when i was in my teens ive thought of my partner being older. And i still think of guys in there 40's and 50's. Always thought that he would have experience and would treat me as more of the sissy-boy i am.

Vanilla Gorilla might be correct:
Im just ito my 30's and have finally come terms with the idea that i really like guys, AND STILL LOKKING

 

im bi and with dudes i only go for older guys, have to be over 30

its so normal its ridonkulous

 

It's hard to find older guys when you're my age.

Interesting that ppl talk about older guys who are 30-40
Those are young ppl.

And, being the older guy, gotta say I like twinks. Just love the smooth skin that fits, the too much hair and all that energy. It's purely physical attraction for me and may not even be sexual, tho I love to deepthroat big young cock.

 

I like older man. Finding someone who could be my "daddy" and at the same time lover has become my goal lately.
You really look interesting for someone at your age. For sure you're gonna find someone that's suitable for you.