ok to have this panty reaction around men if you are taken already?

is it ok for my panties to become wet/turned on around men including the lawn mower man? i already am very very very very happy in bed with my lover that i live with! and i would never kiss the lawn mower man ever. still is ok or wrong? do you still have this reaction to others after you are in love?

 

Don't think it's a matter of right or wrong. Natural response is my opinion. Not to be controlled. Just happens.

 

thanks thats a relief! my lover probably has erections for other girls too maybe anyway

 

I was dying to know what a panty reaction was. Usually if im in something happy i dont have desire for others. Nothing wrong though if you do.

 

No it's not okay.You are a very bad girl.

 

It's completely normal to be attracted to people other than your partner. Doing something about it however, that's where you complicate things.

 

That made me chuckle.

 

If you're really the age you say you are, then purely biologically speaking you're at a stage in life where right and wrong have little practical significance. Not only is it entirely 'natural' for you to be aroused by eligible males in general, of which I take it this lawnmower guy qualifies, but more specifically it is your body's way of saying that, again purely biologically speaking, you need not one, but LOTS of men. Because from this genetic/reproductive perspective, you, your future child, not to mention humanity at large, would surely be best served by ditching the protectionist measures (i.e. monogamy) and offering up your womanhood for, what in government contracting I believe the term is 'limited submission', which in practice just means getting it on with a selection of eligible parties, under the assumption that genetic build quality correlates with genetic competition, so why not extend the domain of competition right up into the bedroom?

Perhaps not the answer you were looking for as a 'human being' and all, though.

 

Nothing wrong with being aroused by someone you feel an attraction to. Researchers have verified that a woman's body responds to sexual stimulation even when its not someone they are attracted to, such as when being raped. It is probably a self defense reflex in that situation, less painful for the women.

I recently read about those studies here in this NYTimes:

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/01/25/magazine/25desire-t.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0

When that article came out the website received 20 million hits, it was the top emailed article for at least a week and the NY Times rates it as the most read NYTimes article in history.

 

By panty reaction, I gather you mean getting "wet knickers."

Of course its all right! You are an animal, you run on hormones. You see something (body) attractive and you slick the knicks ........ we've all done it.
Guys get erections - we get wet.
Perfectly natural and it does not in any way mean you're unfaithful of a bad girl.
'Cos one day, it won't happen. Enjoy it while you can.

 

Well when I was with my ex boyfriend, I fucking hated him and I found myself desiring other people, people that we knew in person and not just celebrities. That doesn't mean I didn't want famous people as well... I'd still kill to wake up and see a naked Anthony Kiedis But when I'm happy, as I am now, usually I do not find myself lusting after our friends/people in the street, because she's the one I want to be with. However I still desire Anthony Kiedis and Juliet Simms and Dita Von Teese... but so does my girfriend so all that is healthy :')

 

You already pay him to cut your grass.

Time to make it a Metaphor

 

thank you, that's pretty interesting! that explains why relaxation massage therapy has made me roused. massage is not romantic but can feel 'good' on your thighs.

ok well my bf/lover noticed mine were soaked when he came home and i am afraid he thinks its cos of the lawn mower man. but if he understands what you do, then it will be ok. he brought up the mower man as soon as he felt there. but might be just a fluke that he brought him up. should i say anything to see if he understands thats it ok for me to have so much?

during some films i like to watch them from the bed cos they have roused me. usually in scenes where a man is kissing his gfs breasts its really enjoyable :hurray: i know how that feels on mine

 

my panties were wet by non-lovers before i met my lover too.

i only talk, no other things. i talk to 2 men at tennis that wet too. but no flirting etc

i only want my lovers lap actually :hide:

 

Be happy, nice to know the fires still burning.

 

i thought about him in bed when i was only known to him as a babysitter. so i guess my flame was always ready for his :love:

 

It's completely normal, and is the female equivalent of random male erections so stop stressing.

 

No, he is probably certain that the soaked panties are because of him.

Any man is more than willing to assume that all sexual attraction (by any woman) is caused by him. The small minority of desire that he doesn't inspire can be re-directed towards him, if he chooses. Or so he thinks.

 

men have them A LOT lol it makes you want to stare at their pants in case

thats lucky. it adds up too cos he touched my arrousal when i came to his work today at lunch. its fun to think of him on the bus to his work :2thumbsup: