I have recently met the woman of my dreams. But My dick wont stay hard. it gets hard, but during the act it goes limp. It makes me feel like less than a man and it makes the woman of my dreams think I am not attracted to her. WHAT THE FUCK CAUSES THIS!!!!!I am afraid it is going to ruin my new relationship.
I havent used drugs in 5 years. I was not drunk when this occured. I am scared because I do not want to lose her.
If she is the woman of your dreams then you are probably just anxious to please her and the more you think about it the more nervous you will become so just try to relax and enjoy yourself. My girlfriend says buy yourself a cock ring as they are impossible to go limp with and they only cost like a fiver. Good luck Claire and Ailsa
a cock ring is good advice. you might also want to try taking ginseng. you can get boxes of little single-dose bottles of the extract at asian groceries and health food stores. i think nerves are your biggest problem, though. get yourself really relaxed before sex. try massage, or a hot tub or jacuzzi if you have access to one. (btw, don't have sex in a jacuzzi inwhich you've used bubble bath, or she could get a horrible rash in the worst place!) candlelight, soft incense, soothing music can all help set the mood for romance, and relax you a little too. try some deep breathing or progressive muscle relaxation exercises before seeing her. good luck!
