ok, I dont get it....

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by WeeDMaN, Jul 8, 2005.

  1. WeeDMaN

    WeeDMaN a pothead

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    Lately, after a girl that I liked left back to winipeg, whenevr someone has feelings for me I get this wierd feeling in my chest, like extreme shyness almost...and I dont know why, no matter how hard I try not to feel that I get it, and it prevents me from getting girls cuz I cant socialize with that feeling...
     
  2. SkeeterVT

    SkeeterVT Member

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    Perhaps it's because you still have strong feelings for the girl who moved to Winnipeg and you haven't yet let go of them. I suspect that your feelings for her may be blocking you from accepting others' feelings for you, as if you're afraid that if you do accept other's feelings, you'd be betraying her.

    Until you let go of that, you're going to continue having trouble accepting others' feelings. Does this make sense to you?

    -- Skeeter


     
  3. Green

    Green Iconoclastic

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    Or maybe your just afraid they wont like you.
     
  4. headymoechick

    headymoechick I have no idea

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    Whenever I am around someone who is interested in me or vice versa I shake like I'm on drugs and it's a total turn off, if that makes you feel any better.
     
  5. BraveSirRubin

    BraveSirRubin Members

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    I blame the weed.
     
  6. WeeDMaN

    WeeDMaN a pothead

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    Thats actually making alot of sense, thanks man.
     
  7. pansy

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  8. WeeDMaN

    WeeDMaN a pothead

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    ya I had a bad past with girls, the first girl I ever had a thing with told me she liked me and wanted to go out with me, but after didnt want to cuz apperrantly I wasnt old enough(Im older than her),next day she goes out with my best friend, who is 11 months younger than me. This happened years ago. and Ive been missing the girl that moved to winipeg so much lately I wish I never met her.
     
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  10. Ganja_Goo_Ninja

    Ganja_Goo_Ninja the penis mightier

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    To be perfectly honest, even my worst relationships (actually, especially my worste ones) have taught me so much about myself and about life in general. Kind of like turning a frown upside down I guess :)

    Much luck wih everything, Weedman. I'm sure everything will work out for you. Stay strong, bro!

    Peace,
    Ganja_Goo
     
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