Oh Wow, I've been in the wrong section...

I'm a 34 year old, attractive, healthy bi female who has been posting over in the bisexual forum on this site.... But 99% of them over there are males.
That's cool and all but I am not into any male except my delicious husband.
Together, him and I seek a bisexual female companion. We started dating 18 years ago when I was 16 and he's always known I liked girls. We married 11 years ago and it's been wonderful but I am missing a very real part of me: sweet sensual female softness.

I've always just shrugged it off and then when attraction hits and we get some attention - each time it is harder and harder to let go of this idea to have a female life partner... WITH me AND my husband. It's called Polyamory. Many Loves.

We recently gave our love to one of our dear friends. She is love starved by her own neglectful husband.
You could say we all used each other but in a really good kind of way.
We started as best friends for a couple years and then this overwhelming attraction hit and threw us all in the sack together. Absolutely beautiful.

She's leaving her husband now and moving to A place far away where she's always dreamed of living. . We all healed each other on some level.

But now I am more in love with this idea of having that all the time in my home... A girlfriend, lover, wife WITH my husband whom I adore.

Just so glad I can speak here Anonymously. This time I cannot ignore it. Now I am actively seeking her, when I am in town, when I am online, even in my dreams - you name it. I wake up almost every night fondling my husband as if he were a woman. Licking and rubbing his nipples... I wake him up doing this and he wakes me up and his dick is all hard and it's so damn hot!
So is this something you all think We might find if we keep looking and following our ground rules?

Ground rules like making friends for awhile before sex, no smokers, no unhappily married women (been there done that!), no sex until proven std free, etc. Thanks for listening and I'm excited to get this conversation going!!

 

The first thought to enter my head is.....pick me...pick me...but then reason takes over and I have to seriously think about the points you have raised.
If you are both actively seeking a third partner I don't see any reason why you should fail to find one and if you have the patience by making friends first and agreeing to some ground rules I think you guys could be very happy.
I cannot talk from experience but it seems to me that you are doing all the right things.

 

Mishell that is very sweet of you to say so, thank you!! After all
My searching this far I want to pick you too lol!! What HAS been your experience?

 

I wouldn't go assuming gender on this board.

 

What do you mean? did I assume gender?

 

Are you saying Mishell is a guy?

 

So what's the problem / issue? Your gf moved away and now you're just stuck with your husband? Life is ruff for some I guess...

 

Thanks for the candor, but Nope, only just starting to LOOK for the girlfriend. Life is only what you make it. I love my life the way it is, and when it speaks to me and says: GO FOR IT..... should I shut my trap and not follow my dreams?? Something to think about....... I guess.... hmmmmmm

 

It was never my intention to come on here to this site to look for this person... I am on here to have a discussion on the topic... And not with gay MEN... Because frankly I'm getting nowhere with that one lol... I'm NOT on hip forums looking for my girl... Just here to discuss.