OCD and Sex

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by ShortDude, Oct 8, 2011.

  1. ShortDude

    ShortDude Member

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    I am 19 and still a virgin. I am mostly straight but I have more than a passing interest in other men as well. I'll have to wait and see I suppose. I have OCD that goes from quite mild to moderate depending on how much I can mentally overcome my compulsions, obsessions, and fears. My main OCD obsessions are those of contamination which poses a problem. I am aroused by the idea of me performing oral on a woman or a man but I don't know if I could actually do it unless I can overcome my fear of germs etc. The same with actual intercourse. Any ideas or advice on how I can overcome this?

    Thanks :)
     
  2. learn2see

    learn2see Member

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    the only way you can overcome any sort of OCD is to do what you hate doing. There's actually a psychiatrist that makes his patients that are germaphobes pee on their hands. It's sanitary AND it works. Anything like that would work though. Try going a day or 2 without showering for a while.
     
  3. Mr.Writer

    Mr.Writer Senior Member

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    When you finally get a willing participant who wants you to go down on them that will be your chance to break through that behavior. Conditioning therapy.
     
  4. deleted

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    Ah shit., I was thinking ADD for a minute and you forget youre having sex and make toast.. :D
     
  5. Reverand JC

    Reverand JC Willy Fuckin' Wonka

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    I was just reading your post and...........Saw a squirrel. WTF!

    Stay Brown,
    Rev J
     
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