I've often wondered this what is the general objective that some one sets out with when dating? what is your final goal when you ask someone out? are there waypoints?
great companionship ...that share similar interests ..even its is for only a good time ..it makes it that much better -that is the first and moremost thing that I look to
Someone to walk with down the road of life, to share (my) human experience with. etc,, P.S. god I am lonely.. lol
a friend, lover, and playmate. someone whom you trust with all parts of you....mind, body, and soul...., yet its not all work and serious, lots and lots of play time and soul chatting..someone to help fulfill the parts of me that cannot be fulfilled being by myself...someone who i love and loves me in all ways including a perfect match sexually
You see, this is why personals ads don't work. Men: "I am looking for someone with a sense of humor, excitement etc." WRONG AND LIES. That sounds good which is why you say it but you're really looking for someone with a fantastic body and an off switch. Women: "Looking for someone with sense of humor, excitement, etc." WRONG AND LIES. However - "Obese woman in near-poverty with three kids looking for man to pay the bills" doesn't get many responses.
