Now that you have lived a while and understand yourself better....

What would you do differently?

I was refused a vascectomy at 20. I would go to another doctor and say I have 3 kids with different moms and want to stop making babies and demand to be snopped. Then I would find a good friend to have sex with from time to time who basically thinks like me. And I would definitely also have sex with men. No need to get married I never wanted a family nor marriage but I was tricked into having a kid. That would never happen if I lived it again knowing what I know now.

How about your guys?

 

Sexually? Not one blessed thing would I have done differently. I consider my sex life to have been very fulfilling and know there's much more to come. Oh, I made errors along the way but through them I was able to learn from them and change my course. Without taking the path I did I wouldn't have known to make those corrections to make it better. Let me tell you, the older I get the better sex gets.

 

That’s an easy one to answer.
I would be holding back a lot less but still careful who I do it with.
Also not holding back as much in life in general
Other than my kids, I would be more careful who I get into a relationship with

 

I would not think my kinks are weird or deviant. I would embrace them and strongly pursue them. And if a man I was dating is not willing, I would not try to change him. I would flat out ask point blank. And if not, I would leave.

 

I would not change anything, I have no regrets

 

Dunno man, Thunderdome was a pretty bad movie.

 

Not a thing, I've enjoyed it all and continue to enjoy it.

 

When we were dating, I promised my wife that I would not have sex with her until we were married. I honestly loved her too much to do anything that would hurt her, and an unwanted pregnancy while she was in college would have been devastating. After we married, she told me that she had sex on a regular basis with other men in college while I was abstaining. If I had it to do over again, I would have sex with her before we married, trusting her pills and my condoms to prevent babies.

 

When I was young (both before and after I got married), there were numerous women that indicated that they were more than willing to have sex with me. In most cases, I never took them up on it. If I had the change to relive that part of my life, I'm NEVER have turned down any of those offers! (When I was a senior in high school, one girl desperately wanted me as her boyfriend... dunno why. It was clear from the start that, if I'd taken her up on it, she'd have happily fucked me multiple times a day, every day, for the entire school year!) It turns out, however, that kind of sexual gratification wasn't denied, just delayed. My first college girlfriend was a bonafide sex fiend. She didn't just want it, she DEMANDED IT! But I digress...

 

Sexually speaking...hmm... not much.
The only sort of regret I have is when I had a jerk buddy in my youth, there was that one night we were camping out in his backyard and got buck naked. We lied next to each other jerking off.
Our legs touched several times, I wanted to reach over and jerk him off and have no doubt he wanted the same. But we didn't.
But on the other hand, since that would have been my first sexual experience... we probably would have progressed to sucking each other off as well. That could have defined my sexuality.
And that would have been tragic.

 

I wouldn’t have waited to have sex.
I married my first partner. Granted I was stupid and only 19 when I got married. I would also change that.

 

Despite the taboo, the repercussions and the stigma I would have been more sexually open and explored my curiosity more when I was an adolescent. Unlike a great many adolescents I didn't get many opportunities to "play" with my friends and I think I am truly regretting the missed opportunities now. We never played with each others cocks, sucked each other cocks or even jacked each other off. From talking to many other people, this was normal behavior for many young boys, but thanks to my parents prudish and sexually repressive ideology and morals, this exploratory phase of my life is missing and severely lacking.

 

I look back and only regret turning down a few women for sex. And would have included a few more group encounters.

 

Most times as you age I think, sexually, you only regret what you didn’t do.