Oky so I feel alone I'm maried but I feel empty inside ? It tgis normal ? I crave for love ? But I receve love daily. And if we have sex it graet but its not that amazing anymore ? I love hit to death but I need more in him. A wild kinda side.
If he doesn't know that anything's wrong, he's going to assume you're happy. Expecting him to "just know" how you feel is the same as expecting him to pick winning lottery numbers. I am not trying to be critical, but it seems the changes you want are all his to make when it's clear that you have changed as well. You have to make occasions to talk about your marriage. Locking it away in storage solves little.
So you saying you got what you want, but still complain and want more anyway? Yes that's normal Id put money on, if he got a whole lot wilder in the bedroom, then you'd start stressing more on whether he is cheating or not
everyone needs more then personal relationships. expecting gratification to come from them, is something people who only care about selling us things want us to believe. what's missing isn't more personal relationships. nor excitement. or anything like any of that. its just like with wealth or mind altering substances. i'm not saying you can't enjoy those things. but trying to convince ourselves that there is gratification to be found there, that's a kind of garden path of grand illusion that the dominant culture has stumbled off into never-land. creativity and exploration are what every real gratification has some element of one or the other or both. no personal relationship, however wonderful, can take the place of that. a second or third or billionth personal relationship isn't going to do so either. (on the other paw: http://d.facdn.net/art/dreamsong/music/1420654684/1420649348.dreamsong_comechasethemoon__amadhia.mp3
I was in a relationship for 7 years and the love was gone fairly fast. However I lived in abject misery for last 3 years and just up and packed my truck and left
I was in a relationship for 7 years and the love was gone fairly fast. However I lived in abject misery for last 3 years and just up and packed my truck and left
I am always under the impression that in a relationship it is not one partner or the other, it is both. We can look for change (more like compromising) in the our partner but not just because we are bored of the intimacy or annoyed because after x yrs he still hasn't done the washing. If there is a problem in any relationship, it is time to move on regardless of who thinks what. We cannot expect the other to change because we want them too or because our best friend told us he should and if he doesn't he is a loser. Expecting a partner to automatically change is impossible; changing together is much easier and works out for the benefit of both in the relationship.
lol I hear you. Except I didn't bother taking anything except immediate personal items. Although it was hard to leave my son behind (mind you that was for only 3 months until she realized it was to hard to raise him and party at the same time, so he is with me and has been for 4 yrs).
