9 Months on and i still have extreme feelings for her and i sometimes go on extreme downers over thinking about her. I cant get into another relationship properly because i cant stop thinking about her. She has a new boyfriend that shes been with for a while. Whats going on?
it's easy to get hung up on someone, especially if you never had any real closure with them. my best advice is try not to think about her, sometimes when you haven't seen someone in a while, you put them up on a pedistool and feel as if they are 'the one' and 'perfect'..... these are all just lies. there is someone just as great out there. you just haven't found her yet. you gotta meet someone new to take your mind off this girl imo.
oh come on. that was good advice. I know what it's like to be hung up on someone.. you just gotta give it time my friend. she isn't THE ONE, i promise
The thing is i've had several 'rebounds' i suppose. i had a short relationship with one of them which sent me back down to the dungeons haha.
I say, go to places where u can meet a lot of people and start doing some activities where there are a lot of people around. I know that when i went through something like that it really helped for me to be around a lot of people because it allowed me to open myself up to talking to people again. You can get so caught up in being upset that you forget the great qualities that you have within yourself that attracted that type of person to you in the first place. If it didn't work out than she wasn't the perfect one for u meaning there is someone that would make you even happier than she did you just have to go and find her.
I'm going through this as well. I'm so hung up on a guy I don't want anyone else. Well that's changing. He's very bad to me so I'm looking for a guy and to prove to myself that I do still believe in love....
