I think thease things are more normal than people believe. And you not mental just because you like pillows! I think you should tell her, she can't be THAT shocket, it's not like you rape girls as a hobby or something, you just like pillows!
I don't see this as gross or stupid, I see it as a normal, human thing, and I think that if your gf stops liking you just because of the inflatable pillow thing she's not worth it. And I believe a healthy relationship needs to be an open relationship. That's at least MY opinion, you don't have to listen to it if you don't want to
I totally agree with you there. thats how our relationship normally is, since we are getting married at some point of next year, i need to bring it out in the open. 90% of males masturabate in some way, so you are one of the 10% ? i see nothing wrong with expressing this and being open with my partner that is all.
I better tell my girlfriend that ive been having an affair with the living room chair.... :& Im so ashamed......it just turns me on with its smooth texture and mahogany wood
Yeah, good luck with the living room chair, chump. I'll let you know once i get past my love of empty cola-bottles.
You need to read thru some of these threads and see what people have used to m-bate with. There is nothing to be ashamed of.
Play nice kids. If you want to tell her, tell her. If you don't, don't. I mean, if you want it to be included in your sex life with her you'll have to tell her, if you're ok with it staying as a strictly masturbatory (ie self pleasure, not from another person) toy, that's ok too. There are worse ways to masturbate, dun worry.
It doesn't sound like a fetish, because its not something you NEED to get off, its just that you haqppen to like that particular object. My guess would be that your gf probably has a favorite toy that yoy may not know about. I suggest you tell her, or show her. If it turns her off, or doesn't do anything for her, that's okay. I could open your relationship up to new things. If she decided that it is too strange for her, them maybe you need to rethink your relationship with her. Far better to find out now - divorce is MAJOR EXPENSIVE! By the way, Eaze - I love humping the arm of my chair on occasion!