Just wondering how normal it is for guys to be noisy during sex. My partner and I recently made a 'home movie'. What should have been the really erotic experience of re-watching it was more of a total cringe! I had no idea how noisy I am! I was making grunting, moaning and whimpering noises that started becoming comically high pitched as I neared orgasm which took the form of a kind of squeal. I think I get so lost in the act that I'm oblivious to my sounds. My partner admitted she's never know a guy like it, but doesn't mind as it communicates to her that I'm enjoying it. Just to add, she he is quite loud herself, but then women generally are. I've started to feel a bit self-conscious, which makes it hard to relax into a good sexx session. Also, god knows what the neighbours must think. :unsure: So guys are you loud? And ladies, have you ever been with any screamers? Help me feel less of a freak lol
It comes down to... if she likes it, or at the very least is simply informed, it's a good thing. And about the only thing that matters when making love to someone. Does the other person like it? If yes, then rock on. \m/
As I've gotten older, I've gotten louder when I cum. I think I'm less inhibited. It feels more like letting go, a good feeling. At my girlfriend's place, we've been having sex two or three times a day. There is a young woman staying in the guest bedroom. She said that for Christmas, she was going to sound-proof our bedroom. We think she's just jealous.
