no strings attached...

is it possible to have a true no strings attached connection sexual relationship? my lady and I were discussing.

 

i did for a while. it ended, and all was good, i thought it had worked, then he called me a year after it was over and wanted to marry me.

so eh... i don't know, i've never had any proof, that's for sure.

 

yeah that's kind of where we're at... somebody gets attached. but I love the idea of it so much that I want it to work, you know?

 

No, I dont think so. I know it wouldnt work for me.
Someone's bound to get attached or develop feelings for the other one...

Only if its a one night stand...you meet someone, have sex with them, and never see them again...

 

ok so here's my question; why can't you still have the feelings and be open? like the whole free love thing. like does casual sex have to be completely without feeling? seems like a loss... like what's the point kind of thing.

 

no, i mean my boyfriend and i are really open and we hook up with other people, but at least if it's with someone of the opposite sex, we have a rule that the other person gets to be there, too, and share.. we like to be free but we also want to do what the other person likes. it's fucking hawt

 

so it works in a three or more way but not casual outside kind of thing?

 

zilla, that just makes you so much hawter in my opinion! i have such a major crush on you!

but yeah, i'm curious too, about how it works for you guys. cause i just don't have a clue how i want it to work for me and loverman.

 

Ofcourse it is possible. Although some people are too brainwashed by society to be able to do that.

 

I know it can work for me. I just haven't ever met anyone who can maintain for more than 3 weeks. I seem to attract women who cannot distinguish sex from love. And if I'm not into her emotionally she's going to get hurt. For all my talk I can't bring myself to shit on someone and sleep well at night.

So in the long run, no.

 

teeheehee

well, prettymuch, i am allowed to hook up with girls one-on-one. i always tell him, usually before.. occasionally after, and most of the time he is there anyway. if he wanted to hook up with guys one-on-one, i wouldn't have a problem with it, but so far he hasn't
when it comes to hooking up with people of the opposite sex, it's always a three or more thing... and lately, we've had a no vag-sex rule, to keep things comfortable.. and safe.. i'm totally cool with prettymuch anything but when it comes to sex, i draw a line, at least at this stage. it's just what works for us, though, who knows if it would work for anyone else... what's yall's status as of late? i know you're all about the free lovin...

 

Yeah it's possible, most of the sex I get is just from calling girls I've been with before.

 

prostitution

 

The question is really convoluted.

But I wouldn't know anyhow.

I'm not around women who think that way. Everything in New York is one-night-stand based.

I would have liked to experiment, but I can't do it on my own.

 

that's how i feel about sex in general

 

it wouldnt work for me...im a one woman man...i guess im just old fashoned like that...

 

LOL!

It's not just one-night-stands actually. People here also "date" --- which means, you can fuck other people so long as your date doesn't get wind of it. :toetap05:

 

Nope, wouldn't work for me. I know myself better than that.

 

i would love to find something like that

 

yes