Hi, I'm JR. I recently joined the forum and wanted to say a few words about myself. I've lived over fifty years and my beliefs are based on experience and verifiable facts. I Retired from the Corps and love my country. After retiring I built houses until the housing crash and now I mostly do remodeling, roofing and additions. I don't fit in any social or political mold, My positions vary from ultra liberal to stark conservative depending on the issue. Most adults try to live a disciplined, structured, responsible life. The popular path to acquiring material things and financial security. I too believe, it's the smart way to live. I would follow that model myself if the lifestyle didn't make me miserable. I can't stand wearing my own shoes without a fool in 'em. I spend so much time up shit creek that I sometimes believe God dug it just for me. My own little paradise, yet for the most part, I only experience different levels of happiness. If I'm sad, most likely someone I admire has died or I spilled some whiskey. I have many blessings to count, the kind that answer to their name. They're priceless and all the riches I'll ever need. I have a wonderful daughter and an amazing family. Raising my girl is unquestionably the greatest honor and priveledge of my life. The opportunity to mold a child into someone good and descent is a tremendous responsibility but the rewards are staggering. There's nothing comparable to the children who have touched my life. An eternal sense of accomplishment and the warmth of pride one can receive through another human being is an amazing gift that only parents or guardians can earn and is likely exclusive to those who got it right. I have my faults and shortcomings, no point in boring you with those. On the other hand, I don't snitch, lie*, cheat, steal, betray confidence, gossip, or put my interest ahead of my friends or family. Repeatedly sabotaging my own life has made me an expert at getting my ass out of perilous jambs without violating my sacred principles. So, if you ever find your own ass in a bind or just want a unique perspective on something, pour yourself a strong drink, pack the bowl and engage me in some dialogue. You may be amazed at the results. I get along with Hippys, 1%ers, and most everything in between. I have nothing left to prove and no compulsion to impress others. I misspell words. I like to drink, get high and love the hell out of most people. I have no tolerance for predators or bullies. Damn glad to be here and thanks to those of you who have already made me feel welcome! Sincerely, Smokenmirrors * I become a compulsive liar in the presence of anyone associated with law enforcement
Not at all. Drinking Jimmy Beam listening to Skynyrd and feeling generous. I'm all about the give/receive policy that friends adopt for mutual support to help us through the hard times. Community think!
I know the welcomes and helpful information I've received here, came from folks who make this crazy world a better place. There's nothing I'm more sure of, than my conviction that friendly people like you are getting it right. Thanks to each of you!