What? no. I said the guy. You never mentioned you guys broke up and I'm not psychic... What? Why? That makes no sense. Do you have the slightest understanding of how human society works? "If someone is planning to murder my family, I shouldn't argue with them, because I wouldn't be respecting their decision." Also, I can think your opinion is stupid and still respect it... I'm talking to you about it on fair ground - how is that not respecting it?
No, I'm not.. I'm not trying to make her seem anything.. what would that accomplish? Because my thoughts are contradictory and argument is a great form of communication. It takes two sides that disagree, has them lay out their positions, and when it's at it's best, leaves both people with whole new perspectives on the subject. My words are sometimes harsh, but it's not out of hate (in most cases =P) - I don't see why so many people see contradiction and argument as bad things..
I'm going on three years this October. It's actually been pretty great for me too. It's amazing what you and your brain can accomplish when you are not always concerned with the pursuit of sex.
Now, OP, if your post was more like this, you would've gotten no argument at all for me - In fact, more power to you lunar =D