no sex for me (time off)

Okay, I am not a virgin but I'm likin' the fact that I'm becoming "reserved" towards sex... I can't stand anymore those guys who just wanna fuck me... I don't like nasty men and those who have weird creepy sexual fetish...

I plan to not have sex and be revirginized (if that's possible) lol, and have the greatest sex with the man I love and loves me back...


so I really need to muster some self-control on this...

and yeah I am successful with this for almost a year now...

 

What ever works for you hun.
Pretty sig pic.

 

Dont worry after a year you "revirginzie" i know

 

It's your life. Whatever makes you happiest. That's the thing. Then, you can share your happiness when you feel comfortable, with whom you feel comfortable. No need to rush in.

 

I really am happy about this, and thanks for the comments... I used to have non-meaningful sexual relationship with this one guy, been crazy...and I never wanna go back...

Gratification cannot always fill the void...and have some respect on our body...

 

I'm that way.
I want something meaningful now.

And, I think revirginization takes 7 years. I could be mistaken, though.

 

It is not possible to "revirginize."

Google would have told you this quickly.

Now..

Why would you do this? I mean, I understand not wanting to fuck "nasty men" as you say, but why deprive yourself of such a wonderful thing? As long as you are careful and having fun, it's all good. It's a healthy and enjoyable activity.

By sanctifying sex and reserving it for that "special someone" you will place much greater importance on both the sex and the next guy you decide to sleep with. There will be great expectations and probably flawed romantic ideals, and possibly disastrous results...

Now, of course, if this is what you want, then you should stick with it. But you make out as if it's an achievement to stay celibate, which sort of indicates you don't really want to do this, you just feel you should, for some reason.

There's nothing glorious about being a virgin or being chaste, nor is there anything wrong with it. What's important is that we do the things that make us happy.

 

There's no such thing as revirginizing, and there's barely such thing as a virgin (real definition = completely innocent). You aren't growing to grow your cherry back, any effect of such a process is purely made through your head and the way it affects your relationships.

I really don't see the point of not fucking him - is it to "make up for" prior sluttiness?
If anything it sounds like you're punishing him because he isn't a dick like the others.

 

yeah i already know it is impossible...

this is hard and i know how much of a wonderful experience it is to have an orgasm and all during sex... but i think i have made an obsession with that feeling, which is not healthy anymore...lol

and i'm really not expecting something big or amazing for me to happen, i just wanna be careful now...

i also don't achieve to be a celibate i'm just following my instincts, that i should pro'ly not sleep around and as frustrating as it is, meeting a good guy is like 1 in a million...

sall good...

i'm happy actually, i wanna be good with my pussy...lol

 

good for us :cheers2:

 

i'm not seeing the guy anymore...

and if my choice is to not have sex, is it punishing someone u know?

i think people should just give respect to everyone's decisions...

 

7 years. I could be mistaken, though.

I think 7 years is right..it's in the bible so it must be true

 

oh i don't really read the bible...
and i think everythin thats written there are just like metaphors...

 

oh I don't either..but pretty sure 7 years covers everything

if it doesn't maybe we can get it changed

 

I didn't say it because it's in the bible. I don't use fairy tales to support threads.

And, I don't mean for you to become a 'cherry', duck. I mean for the hymen to grow back together.

 

Not possible, and will never happen unless one has surgery.

 

How about using ceran wrap in the meantime?

 

wait, so some people think that "revirginize" is a real thing!?

 

I think that's key. What's right for some isn't right for everyone. Each person has the right to put his or her body to whatever use that person thinks is best for her or him, and no one else is entitled to any opinion about it whatsoever.

 

im a virgin, i love it it sets people apart from the sex-hungry human beings.