Hey guys. I'm new to the forum, send some love.. I just wrote this really long and detailed block of writting here, and it all got deleted for some reason before I could post it lol. So I'm just going to make this brief.. After doing E (pills) for the third time in my life I lost my sex drive for the following few weeks. This was in the summer this year. I know that everyone's member shrinks and stiffens while you're rolling, but for me it stayed that way for a long period to come. This didn't happen after the first two times I was rolling. So I looked it up, and on a different forum, there are a few others that have reported the exact same thing with the same symptoms. This issue persisted for me until around December. My member was 'hard in its flaccid state', lowered sex drive, no morning wood, scary stuff I tell ya.. but all this goes away if I didn't have sex/masturbate in about 5 days. Turns out there are entire forums with people suffering from this 'hard flaccid' problem, but for them it was induced in a different ways. Urologists show people that everything is fine. Me and a few others have actively been trying to treat this on this one forum. People have experiemneted with supplements, alpha-blockers, cialis, and other stuff, with some help but nothing concerete. By December things seemed to almost return to normal. By end of December I was introduced to pure mdma (molly) and had to try it. It was the most incredible night. Then I did it again a week later on New Years. For the first two weeks after, again my member had shrunk and I had no sex drive. I knew the drill, so I limited sex/masturbating to once in 5 days, started exercising regularly, eating healthy and taking omega-3 capsules. Then one day (3 weeks ago) things returned to absolutely normal and stayed that way for two weeks, until i got sick, went on anti-biotics and stopped exercising. Now again the problem is persisting... A few things: these past few months have been hell, as you can tell. But the good news is that in our case (ecstasy induced), this is definitely reversible. It is basically caused by an imbalance of certain hormones, which gets restored with enough rest and right nutrition. After many months of research and experimenting, I found out that for me to treat this I need to limit sex to once in 5 days, get all my vitamins and minerals, get plenty of omega-3 and promote blood circulation and testasterone levels. So just in case it happens to any of you, that is the drill. I'm guessing that something like this happens to maybe 1% of mdma users, and I am one of them lol.. story of my life. The problem is still not over for me, and if it persists I will experiment with alpha blockers and other stuff, but I am 100% certain that it'll go away in a few months tops. Now for the hardest part, I really want to do mdma again. On all 5 occasions they were great and memorable nights. Especially after trying pure mdma I have to do it again. However, my dick is slightly more important to me, and this is my dilema. I don't know if i could go through that experience again. I am thinking of giving myself a full year to recover, but then again I am thinking if I know how to reverse this, it might be worth two weeks of no sex lol. (If definitely is worth it if i knew for sure that this will go away forever). Anyway, I am pretty certain I wouldn't make it a full year without it, so I'll let you guys know what happens.. Has anyone else experienced anything similar? lowered sex drive? Any comments? Cheers. Much love from Toronto..
ive never had that problem i wouldnt want to do molly if it did... but i dont really have a sex drive wen im rolling .. just touching and kissing is overwhelming
I've taken ecstasy, once for the experience, and my sex drive is still here. Seems a bit odd, but then again some people must just be prone to erectile dysfunction and all that other stuff. How long does Ecstasy stay in your system? You might also want to consider other compounds in the synthesis could attribute such side effects. Ecstasy is rarely completely pure. Perhaps some lingering adulterant is the culprit.
mdma fucks my brain chemestry up for a little while, and i usually don't have much of a sex drive for a few days after taking it, but not for an extended period of time.
Nothing like this happens to me. I don't have problems when I'm rolling either. I've only done MDMA, not E, so maybe that has something to do with it?
It's great that you guys don't have this. I know that many people have no sex drive while rolling, but it goes away after a day or two. I would assume that only a tiny number of people get this. I've found a few others though with the exact same symptoms. i haven't done E/molly enough times to conclude which causes what effects and for how long. All I know so far is that it's been 5 weeks since last time i did molly. On two of them, everything down there was perfectly fine, the other 3 I had the 'hard flaccid' issue. I need to give it more time to see what happens, but the fact that everything came back to normal a week after doing molly is already a good sign, because it took about a month after that time I did E. Yea, something like this is usually enough to scare someone away from mdma, but I know its reversible, so I'm thinking a few weeks of this is still worth it. Anyway, I'm going to wait until I fully recover before doing it again, and then I will know exactly what effect molly will have on my sex drive and how long it will stay for.
interesting i have not heard of this phenomenon. sex is pretty distant on my mind while rolling but i have never done it in a sexual context.
K so what is the difference between Molly E and MDMA first of all? I thought E and molly is nick names for MDMA (the actual chemical abbreviation)? Also if it's a thing regarding purity that's silly anyways, anybody can call a powdery substance anything and say that it's pure. Also, another reason I bring up is impurities is because chances are it was cut with a substance that can also inhibit arousal that has a potentially longer half life.
Molly is supposed to be pure MDMA crystals and E/ecstacy are pressed pills with unknown chemicals in them. They are supposed to be MDMA, but people put all kinds of stuff in them. Taking E is generally not an arousal drug, but in the right setting it is. It generally just makes you happy, euphoric, open, want to touch and be touched. But once my private parts get touched, it's all over. My sex drive has never been effected after the comedown, or the next days or weeks. Unless I ate ALOT and I have a rough comedown, sex is one of the last things on my mind. But the next day after a good nights rest I am fine.
Im having this same problem, but didnt think anything of it for the past half year ive been rolling because i was able to get it up during sex still..now i am having trouble actually staying hard during sex and im getting worried if my sex drive/libido will return to normal!. i quit E about a month ago now!
i've never taken e-pills, just MDMA crystals/powder. Total exposure over my lifetime is 12-13, half being 20 years ago, half being within the past two years. Everytime it is the same for me: i am into connection and touching as well as intimacy and i strongly desire sex and will do what it takes to get it from my husband. But, i have never, ever been able to come on MDMA. Normally, and on other drugs, i come rather easily and frequently multiple times during a good sex session, so this is a bit disconcerting. But, it has happened pretty much every time (even when no husband/partner present and attempted masturbation - no completion achieved) i suspect my situation is not at all unusual. Regarding the physiological and response changes experienced by males over time: i gotta say if it were me i'd stop consuming the chemical that did that to me but i'd want to make absolutely sure that it was in fact the MDMA and not something else (chemical or food) contributing to the situation. Hope you get some answers and relief over time. Peace & Love, Spicey Cat Meow!
same here! i tried it once a few days ago. and somehow i dont have the urge to wank or anything. hope this isnt permanent. or its gonna be bad in the future.
It shouldn't be permanent, I usually experience mental fatigue and depression a few days following mdma use. My libido is usually fine though but it's not hard for me to imagine it effecting some people's libido. I've used it for awhile and not had problems in regards to libido, I know people respond differently but I can't imagine it being a permanent thing.
Yeah, I noticed this my last roll. I wasn't ever trying to stimulate it though so I don't know how it'd work. Ha.
My husband and I have experienced something very similar to the original poster in this thread. We tried molly/mdma for the first time a couple years ago, we coupled it with viagra every time so he could get an erection since molly made that impossible and let me tell you that these nights were the best thing I've ever felt in my life. We would buy a couple grams of molly and a couple ounces of weed and our night would start. Alone, no clubs, no friends, no alcohol just me,him, molly and weed. My feelings for molly are now mixed because of the immense, unsurpassed pleasure we've experienced on those nights and my now lack of desire for regular sex! Molly coupled with my husband has shown me pleasure that only existed in my wildest dreams! He just devours me for hours and hours, I'm talking our record is a solid 24 hours of sex! With the viagra in him he has learned to stay hard on molly and not cum while we go at it for generally 12-18 hours when do this. We'll touch and caress, hold each other as tight as possible, he will slide inside of every part of me that he can for hours open hours until sometimes it's hard for me to close my legs they've been open for so long and my throat is raw and I still want more! What we do is go at it for maybe 2-3 straight hours and then head into the bathroom and sit on the floor on blankets for a break which consists of maybe an hour of smoking weed, talking, cooling off, hydrating with water and gatorade and then back the bed for another 2-3 hours of him inside me and we repeat this same process over and over until before we know it 12-24 hours is gone and we're still begging for more! We've done this a few times a month for the past two years. We've been together since we were 15, we're 39 now and we've always had an amazing and exciting sex life anyway but found ourselves struggling to recover from some problems for the past several years. Molly has helped us both open up, sort out deep rooted things and find a way to move past some pretty intense problems. I will say that without the help of molly we probably would have divorced. The deep, emotion and intense things we've been able to talk about on these nights is something that 10 years of one on one with the best therapist in the world would not have done, it's been miraculous to say the least. I mean we've literally had the most romantic, sexiest moments talking to each other gently about certain things while he's inside me for hours. He had an affair before all this and I was able to hear about it, ask questions and get answers all while being comforted with him holding, caressing, and deep inside me. It allowed us to figure out why the affair happened, helped me to cope and us to give each other attention we hadn't for a long time. My problem? Well my husband can hardly get an erection on his own now in between these sessions and our sex life had become almost non-existent in between because we'd get our fill a couple to several times a month of these 12-24 hour sessions of magical, dream like making love and neither of us really desired regular sex too much and when we do it's over in like 5 minutes when before molly we'd go .5 - 1.5 hours each time we were together a few times week at least! It's not that making love doesn't feel good without it, I love it that way too, I love him just as much but now that I've had this devour me, can't get enough of me, can't tell me enough how much he loves me, love making for hours on end....normal 5-15 minute love making sessions just leave me frustrated longing for more and more like I've become used to on molly nights. My husband read about the long term damage molly does to the brain etc and now he wants to stay away from it for about a year to allow his parts to become normal again, we find that a month or so without it and he's starting to be able to get hard like he used to, get morning wood again etc. so he wants to stay away from it for a while. I don't feel that way. I feel frustrated, and panicked at the thought of not being able to be that way with him for a year, I can't stop thinking about it. I mean if I could put into words the way it feels, like nothing else ever has or I'm sure ever will! The intense feelings of desire stronger than when you just start having sex with someone for the first time and you can't get enough of them, stronger and better than most people have felt in their wildest dreams, this I'm sure of. So I say to all the people who have wondered if their sex life will be ruined after a night of having it on MDMA if you are doing it with a person you're madly in love with, the answer is YES! It's like opening Pandora's box. Once you experience this with someone you're madly in love with, trust me you will NEVER feel anything better, you can never go back. Though it's fixed problems I've had since childhood that nothing helped me conquer, I would say don't take a bite of the apple. I used to get so excited over just a normal night we planned on making love now I just feel mad at him that he can't go that long, doesn't devour me like he's never wanted anything more, doesn't whisper how beautiful I am and how good I feel, or pull me so tight it's like he never wants to let go. It's just normal love making and I miss the way he makes me feel on those nights so badly that I want to cry on a regular basis because it has to go away. I do not have an addictive personality, not cigarettes, not alcohol, not shopping, not anything have I ever had this problem with in my life! I could walk away from anything and not care but this has a grip like the devil on me, the pleasure it has given me is just too much that nothing will ever compare. I spent my entire life free of drugs I had never even so much as tried weed until I was 32 and now I feel like some kind of loser who is addicted to the feeling I get from my husband when we are bonding and making love on molly. It's not the molly...for instance I have no desire to do it without him, it's the way he treats me and the way we make each other feel when on it. My advice for anyone is it may save your marriage, yes it may heal your emotional problems that you've never been able to conquer and if you're head over heals in love with the person you're doing it with, trust me it will amplify everything about that love a million times, you will never experience anything like it. I mean I want him so bad that I actually want to drink him dry when we're like that because the love and desire to be close is great! So you have this to look forward to, but in exchange be ready to give up any magic that making love has ever given you because you'll never be able to compare to what you'll go through on molly. I am at a loss as to what to do. I am terrified I will never really enjoy normal love making again and always just be longing for that beyond dreams magic I have on those nights.
For my girlfriend and I, MDMA has always amplified our sexual experience. She is now able to have multiple, screaming orgasms while rolling! Even without dropping we still have intense sex...could be we just have amazing chemistry, but we limit rolling to no more than once every 1-2 months. The Molly amps you up, so you're not going to walk around the trance club with a hardon, but after the peak, look out!! ...And the next day is always HOT!! The key is not to overdose...My girl and I know our body's, and don't abuse the MDMA. But, yes....i understand EXACTLY what you mean..the emotional and physical intensity is beyond belief!!
