Alright, so me and my girlfriend have been having sex for about 3 months now and she has never had an orgasm or really even cummed. The first couple of times she even dried up. She stayed wet for about 15 minutes but then that was it. THe last couple times i tried more foreplay which definatly helped, she says she likes it better. My real question is what am i doing wrong and what can i do to make her cum and have an orgasm?
A lot of women can't orgasm from intercourse alone. Clitoral stimulation is key - and this can be done in a variety of ways during intercourse. Lots of foreplay helps too. Women aren't like men ... the more foreplay she gets, the easier it will be for her to reach orgasm.
Pleasure the clit bro, A simple fuck isn't enough. I learned this the hard way. Like Little Wonder said, Foreplay helps her get into "the mood", and its fun for you too.
im an 18 year old male and hav an active sex life yet i never seem to cum during penatration, i gave up after trying for several hours and still didnt. although i am perfectly able to reach a climax though masturbation. i first thought that it might be due to several factors such as "girl sayin its her first time(slut)" but i kept up with my active sex life and included expermental sex with certain fetishes to see if my problem was psycological. yet all my tests have been inconclusive. i even at one point questiond my sexualtiy, but after using a finger i quickly accepted that i wasnt gay. i did at one point though have my dick bitten rather hard during a blow job which left my dick looking like a shark attack, so idont know if that could be the cause. if any one thinks that they can help with my retarded dick, then please help.
one of my boyfriend, it was the same thing! i don't know why...i though it was maybe the way he put the condom or he didnt felt the skin's shaft moving or something.. anyways..i wonder what could it be..
It could be psychological, or it could just not be your thing for getting off that way. Some men have more trouble versus blow jobs and hand jobs because there's less control over the sensation, sometimes too much wetness equals not enough friction, it could be you're trying too hard, it just may not be stimulating enough, etc. I'm sorry, I know that must be difficult to deal with and explain
