No longer a virgin

Ok girls I've got a question. After over a year of dating, me and my GF were in the the middle of a love making session and she stopped me and asked me if I wanted to have sex? Well i left it up to her and made sure she was ok with it and we went to town. I wore a condom but didn't like it at all. I couldn't feel anything really but came because I was so turned on. Well she has been on the pill for damn near 4 years. She isn't the greatest at taking it at the right time of day, now she needs to make sure she is. Next time I see her we don't want to use a condom. She has been diagnosed with PCOS so theoretically the chances of pregnancy is even slimmer now but we all know that things can go wrong. She wants to look into the forms of BC that doctors implant inside you on top of still taking BC for hormomal reasons.

Now my question is if your on the Pill does your partner cum inside of you? Or do you make him pull out?

I'm just curious what is the best way to go about this.

 

Look up info on IUDs. The brand name is Mirena.

 

thank you but do most guys still finish inside of you? It just seems to so natural to finish inside.

 

we dont use condoms anymore, and ive been on the pill for ages
before we went condomless, i insisted that we both were std tested (i get tested after i part from every partner). we also intend to be together for a damn long time if not til we pass away, so if an accident does happen its not the end of the world

i think this is something you should discuss with your partner, not base your opinion or argument on what random other internet people do

 

I have used only the Pill for many years without getting pregnant. I used to take it every morning as soon as I got out of bed. Now I always take it at bedtime. Seems to make no difference.

 

The pill is not the issue at all here. I know it's effective 99.9% used correctly and no need for condoms but the real question is if you ejactulate inside of your partner while on the pill is it still 99.9% effective? Or is it still recommeded you pull out?

 

You do not need to pull out.

 

fdude-orget about the pill and just wear a rubber duckie--it wont kill u- rubbers feel good

 

You don't have to pull out. That's one of the great things bout the pill

 

Im the exception to the rule.. I was taking bc pills on time everyday and ta da meet my eight year old daughter Cheyanne. Wouldnt change it for anything, but sometimes shit happens even when youre protected so be careful.

 

You say she's not the best at taking it at the same time every day. That means that it's less than 99.9% effective. She should def look into IUDs.

 

She can keep the pill pack on top of her alarm clock. How could she forget if it was the first thing she saw every morning?

 

It sounds like there are uncertainties in your mind about the whole subject of contraception. Is there a Planned Parenthood center where you live? I would pay them a visit and get some real information, and not rely on an internet forum.

At the least, take a look at plannedparenthood.org. There's a wealth of information there, and you should be able to get all your questions answered.

Good luck

 

the pill is kind of inconsistent

I cannot cum with a condom at all so me and my lady just go with the nuva ring and its been working for the last two years just fine

 

Well, if she's not consistent. Then she can always get the Plan B pill.

Just make sure she doesn't smoke for drink, because that can mess up the hormones in the pills, Especially if she isn't consistent.

 

i think this is the best answer you're ever gonna get.

 

I've had a tubal ligation, but I still make my husband pull out. I hate the mess.

 

If you had to pull out, it wouldn't be much of a pill. If failure to pull out meant pregnancy, the pill failed to do anything.

 

Is it me or is every person who's lost his or her cherry the female is somehow "diagnosed" to have "lesser chance of pregnancy"? I swear, I've heard that so called diagnosis or variations of it since I was probably in my mid teens. And guess what? THEY ALL END UP GETTING PREGGERS FAST!

Cut the bullshit. Make sure she's taking her pill on time daily or put on a rubber.

 

a stripper once told me that her three kids were all born while using some form of contraceptive. condom for one. birth control for another. and i think maybe one of those little mini frisbee things the third time. but then again, strippers say all kinds of things.