Hello, I was wondering if anyone else has the same experience as me. Posting this because I am not even sure it is 'a problem'. I enjoy regular clitoris orgasms, and penetration sex (though I do not get orgasms through penetration alone). The thing is that when there is penetration, I seem to lose all ability to feel anything on my clitoris - it seems the experience of penetration is so intense, it blocks out my feeling of the clitoris. I would like to come when my partner is inside of me and therefore am wondering if this is a problem and how I should fix it. Many thanks
I wonder if you had your clitoris stimulated to orgasm before penetration. That’s the only idea I can think of
I hope you check in again Jo. You might benefit from what we can advise. Nerve endings around your clitoris may not extend towards the vaginal opening to where you get sensation in it from penetration. All women are different as to how the nerve endings that provide pleasure during sex are located. Some have a long reach around the clitoris and some don't Sadly there's nothing you can do to change those nerve endings and make your clitoris react to intercourse with a penis or even a dildo. Unless, you continue to stimulate your clit manually while your partner has penetrated your vagina. Like Andy wondered if you orgasmed before being penetrated that might help with orgasm while penetrated. You might try rubbing your clit once he is inside as you would while masturbating or place a vibrator there between you and your partner. If you solely use the missionary position for intercourse this can be difficult with him laying over you. Try other positions that allow you better access to your clit. Cowgirl and doggie are a couple of positions where you can easily play with your clit while giving your partner the joy he wants. With practice you may orgasm with him inside you this way but don't get all pent up trying to do so. Thinking that you can't keeps you from doing so.
Have your parter try vibrating cock ring. They are soft with a little action. I’ve always wanted to try and see what they did. I would think that it could hep
Most of my gf had most of their orgasms without stimulating the clitoris. So a part of the problem may be your focusing to much on it, let your mind free and just experience the sights sounds and feelings, which may trigger and orgasm. Also other sensations elsewhere may work for you, an example is a gf I had before had the most intense orgasm by me just playing with her nipples
