I have never posted to a forum before, just looking for some advice. Yes, I am a picses and yes, I analyse things way too much. I apologize in advance if I ramble on and on about something you could careless about. I apologize double if this sort of thing is in the wrong forum. But, if you're bored and interested, reply. Thanks. So, I got setup with this girl for New Years by a couple I know. She told me she recently got out of a 5 year relationship that has been off and on for the last 2, but she said she is done with that guy. She has her own place now, but still has some things left over at his place, so a meeting with the guy is inevitable. We talked and had a good time, kissed when the ball dropped. We ended up staying at the couples house that night and made out and I even went down on her, no sex though. She said she really wanted to cuddle with me, and since I'm down for that we did. The next morning we stayed in bed for a while, but didn't kiss. I figured she wasn't into kissing after going down her. We then stayed there the next night also and cuddled that night too, but nothing sexual, other than some light touching. I kissed her a little bit, but since neither of us had a toothbrush or anything, I figured I wouldn't push it. The next morning, no kissing just some hugs and a goodbye. She's been text messaging my phone for the past few days, and she invited me to come over 2 nights ago, she asked if I wanted to stay the night and I agreed, of course. I made a couple half-assed attempts to kiss her, but it didn't seem like she was into it. We kissed a little, but she seemed pretty tired and we fell asleep cuddling some more. Pretty late last night she asked again if I wanted to stay over and I decided to swing by. We cuddled and kissed a little, but it was late so we just went to sleep. I got up and we talked for a little bit, then I left and came to work. My question is, do you think this girl is interested in me or just wants someone to cuddle with? Does it seem like I am the rebound guy? I'm not really worried about it, I enjoy the cuddling since it's been quite a while for me, although the blue balls are a downside. We don't seem to have too much in common as far as music and general interests go, but there is certainly an attraction there. I'm not looking for just sex, but I'm not going to turn it down. I just can't figure out what it is we're doing. Thanks, great forums, by the way.