hi iv only recently started having sex, and i really want to please my man.!!!!!!!!!! he loves oral, but i just cant seem to get it right. we have also tried doggie style but i find it a little tiring as i have to bend over and it hurts my back . Any advice most welcome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
From behind--bend over and rest your arms/upper body on the bed, or bend over the back of a cushioned soft chair, or lay over a dining room table or similar Doggie style--on your hands and knees, or on your knees with upper body resting on pillows/bed or similar oral--can't get it right? practice alot, he'll like it I bet... have him tell you what he wants you do with your mouth and tongue are you getting to come each time? if not, that is why you are not enjoying it. buy a vibrator and use it. if you are going to have sex you should at least get to come too.
I wouldn't buy the vibrator. I've heard lots of women say they regretted ever using one. So I've been told, it can desensitize your clitoris to the point that you can't get off normally. Stick with fingers, tongues, and other natural appendages. You'll get there eventually.