So my girlfriend and I just started dating, and I identify as a lesbian and she's bisexual. I'm the first girl she's been with, and she's the first girl I've had sex with. We've only had sex once, and she didn't really do anything for me. I've never had sex at all, but she's slept with guys and also has figured out how to make herself orgasm on her own (which I haven't). The reason why she didn't really do anything for me was because she expected me to tell her exactly what I want, and since I've never had sex before I'm not really sure what that is. The only thing is that I know I don't really want to try anything penetrative at this point, and since I didn't want to do that she didn't really seem to have any other ideas. Is it wrong of me to want her to just come up with things on her own? I know that obviously I should let her know if she does something that I like and sort of steer her in the right direction at least, but it seems like she just literally has no clue about what to do.
yes, wrong to leave it all up to her the both of you since it is pretty much a beginning for you both - need to spend time just exploring each other and keep communicating as to what is working and what does not feel good.
I feel you girls need to experiment together. It can be great for getting to know each other. Sure it's good to know yourself as well, but communication is key.
Nothing kills a mood like being asked "what would you like". Girl just do something already! Don't ask, just do.
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