When you compare 2008 to 1980 you notice a lot of things have changed. Sex is more nasty, crazy, 'freaky', sick, twisted, more hardcore, more extreme. Everything is being pushed to the limit and is still moving in that direction. What will sex be like in 35 years? - Back then, a porn with a cumshot in the mouth/face was hot. Now you see cumshots on the eyeballs with a man holding her eyes open, spit all over her face, veins popping out in her neck. This content couldn't be found back then. - Anal was rare in porn back then. Now you see 3 dicks in the ass while some hot chick vomits on a 4th dick. - Stomach punching and bondage/pain is more common and is being tooken to the limit even in commercial/mainstream porn. Back then it didn't exist...not in porn. - People protested that anal sex be illegal years ago, now it is illegal in few to any states in the USA and more common than ever. - With the rise of 2girls1cup.com and several other sites, many high school and middle school students are eating shit and puking on each other after school with their friends. College kids are more experimental now than back then. - Group sex in general population is more common now than back then. - Sex has become more violent and edgy. Everything is still on a "Bigger, better, harder, stronger, faster" movement and getting more extreme, more hardcore, more kinky, more freaky. - Dozens of others. Porn/media is influencing men and women who normally would of never had 12 men cover their body in cum, nut in their eyeballs, and various other extreme sex acts. Because of this the general population and society as a whole is following the bigger, better, harder, stronger, more extreme, more edgy, to-the-limit movement and trying things they normally would of never tried. 16 to 30 year olds are seeing things and trying them - things they didn't know about. I'm speaking of America specifically. So what will sex be like in 35+ years? Will the average commercial/mainstream porn have females getting smacked harder, spit on more, vomiting more, eating shit, thrown on the floor FOR REAL and not acting for the cameras, real busted lips, menstrual blood, fetishes, bruising (tits, arms, ass, ect.), cutting, and more? It makes sense if you think about it. We're heading right in that direction and the past is proof. If I was asking this 35 years ago I bet a lot of you wouldn't agree that in 2008 porn would be showing girls vomiting on multiple cocks, huge orgies and bukkake, smacked around and loud gagging, multiple men cumming on eyeballs, stomach punching, and other extreme content. You would probably be telling me something like "They monitor it and won't allow it to get that far." and "For one thing anal sex is illegal in my state" or similar. It isn't just in porn either. It's in general. Bigger, better, harder, stronger, faster, push-it-to-the-limit movement has been going on for decades and still is. We'll see what it looks like in 10 years. Comments, additions, debate, agreement, disagreement, info, links, everything welcome. my AIM screen name is in my profile if anyone wants to hollar at me.
I do understand your point of view and your concerns, however I don't think sex has become something new. The media has just been more accepting to show the fetishes of the few and make it somewhat normal. You are wrong if you think those kind of sexual practices weren't common in the past. Anal sex was documented for centuries, The Libertines are a proof that free love and sado-masochism aren't 20th century's innovation, Bondage has been practiced and turned into art by the Japanese. If I follow your reasoning, we should all be beyond Sodom and Gomorrah. Human behaviors can be projected as a linear progression or an exponential. It's much more complicated. I don't believe sex changed all that much.. the access to broad media just exposed those practices to the public view. It has more to do with censorship than sex, which bring up a more controversial subject 'the right to expression'. As for children and teenagers, well I think parents nowadays have to have open talk about sex, it's not something to ignore anymore. Youngsters aren't all that stupid .. they won't all eat shit. Just have some trust. I mean it's not because someone like bondage or some spanking that he/she will have orgies or beat someone.
most of what youd escribed are things on the edge, fetishes and things that arent supremely common... the internet being so prolific allows for these weirdass fetishes to pop up more because, well, everything easier to find on the internet practically yes, even some of the more regular hardcore porn is fairly violent but that stuff just gets turned off and another flick found, or at least, thats how i handle it
You didn't comprehend 1 word I wrote. Re-read it. I SAID: "Porn/media is influencing men and women who normally would of never had 12 men cover their body in cum, nut in their eyeballs, and various other extreme sex acts. Because of this the general population and society as a whole is following the bigger, better, harder, stronger, more extreme, more edgy, to-the-limit movement and trying things they normally would of never tried." That means exactly what it says and is true with proof to support it, logic, reason, and common sense. Had it not existed in the media, it wouldn't exist in the lives of millions of teens-adults IN AMERICA FROM THE DATES I SPOKE OF (1980 to 2008) <--- ---> Fact, not my personal opinion. I SAID: "16 to 30 year olds are seeing things and trying them - things they didn't know about. I'm speaking of America specifically. So what will sex be like in 35+ years? Will the average commercial/mainstream porn have females getting smacked harder, spit on more, vomiting more, eating shit, thrown on the floor FOR REAL and not acting for the cameras, real busted lips, menstrual blood, fetishes, bruising (tits, arms, ass, ect.), cutting, and more? " Thats means what it says: From 1980 to 2008, like I said, sex has changed in America specifically - like I said. Group sex is more common, anal is legal now, teens doing things earlier, getting pregnant earlier, media influencing them to do things they never would of, more extreme graphical porn has teens doing things they never would of thought of, and EVERYTHING ELSE I SAID. So you're "I don't think sex has changed that much" opinion is false when responding to my original post. Sex is nothing like it was in 1980 in America among general population. That includes middle school kids all the way up to grown adults in their 40's.
Sorry to see you react that strongly about my post.. But you forget that free love movement started in the 70's and come along the 80's with sex and rock'n roll.. Don't tell me that back then people weren't experimenting sex and orgies. And FYI a lot of people (men in particular) always wanted to try so-called new things, one of the few options given to them was to turn to prostitutes. I mean, would you want your husband to go elsewhere from fear to tell you what he wants to try? My mother still believes to this day that fellatio is a counter-nature horrendous act.. What's correct and what is not? To me it'sall about a personal preference. Taboos not only suck but can be dangerous. Ignoring things doesnt make them disappear or lessen them. There were just more taboos, you'd do it but never talk about it... Since then sexual behavior hasn't changed that much.. we are just more inclined to talk about it and therefore we can protect ourself against some behaviors/consequences. As for the consequences? Take a look at teenage pregnancy (cf 1980-2000 Analysis on teenage pregnancy) it did decrease. Stats has shown that compared to a decade ago teens are being more responsible, restraining from sex or at least using condoms (cf Sex Health report 2005) What is wrong with sex if we do it safely? I am just saying that sex has always been present and always seemed too much/crazy (especially when it comes to teenagers)... I just think Parents should teach their kids better or at least keep them properly inform. I am not encouraging people to experiment or to do it when they are fourteen. I dont think a normal teenager would be entice to try the 2 girls and 1 cup scenario in their right mind. Have some trust in them. PS: and no I am not sex craze maniac.. I did wait until I was 20, but anyway sex is like food, it's very good but there are limits to it and things we shouldnt eat/do. Ultimately it is all about personal choice, why do you car if someone likes being spanked or not? To tell you the truth, people eat shit and peed on each long before Sex and the City or that 2 girls and 1 cup video. Well I wish you good luck on reforming America's sex deviants.
BTW .. if a 12 yo kid is stupid enough to have orgies or eat shit.. well blame the parents not the media. It's their job to watch over their child. Sorry to sound that harsh, but someone has to take responsibilities, we can't just push it onto others. PARENTS DO YOUR JOB.
I love it, no need for change. Again you twisted my words into what you wanted to see or thought you were seeing. The question was what will sex be like in 35 years. And again, your whole post is irrelevant. "Don't tell me that back then people weren't experimenting sex and orgies." What does that have to do with sex in general population being different and more extreme, harder, stronger, faster, earlier, ect. when comparing the dates in original post? What does it have to do with sex in 35 years among general population compared to present and past in general population? What does anything that comes from you have to do with anything I said lol. Yeah, people had orgies back then and even in king and queen days when it was legal and morally correct for the rich to engage in sex with 8-10 year olds. What does that have to do with general population having more orgies and doing more extreme things, like I said in original post, when compared to the past in America (1980)....??????? Stop replying to my post plz. You're making it a pain in my butt to correct you.
Why do you post anything if you can't handle others' opinion? Is that because you are all knowing and you are preaching us the good words? What I am trying to tell you is that.. whatever you think sex has become in the past 2 decades isn't. Sex hasn't changed much in the mass public as you like to insist. We are just more open to talking about it. That's all. As for your "in 35 years sex" it won't be much different from now. Same sexual behaviors. Tell me how more twisted, violent, perverted etc sex is now compared to the 80's. I am sorry but porn isn't enough of a support for your argument. It does not reflect the average or normal behavior of a society. Especially if you start including some extreme home made videos. You should watch and analyze all the home made videos and then give me a number. Did you read my replies by the way or did you just jump to conclusion? Did you check the link I gave you? Not significant enough for you, are they? You wanted to be specific here you have it. You take past data (multiple eras is recommended), present data, then do analysis and then do a regression. And if you want to "project" the future of America's sexual behavior I would recommend you to read on statistical projections and population behaviors. Like I stated earlier it is not a linear progression or an exponential growth. Sorry to be a pain in the ass.. but how do you know about pain in the ass? Isn't anal sex something that is immoral to you?
"Free love" really took off in the late 1960s with the advent of the pill and the social revolution that led to communes, etc. Regarding what things will be like in 35 years, check out the Woody Allen film set in the future, where a person can stand in a vertical booth and get an orgasm, just like getting a tan in a tanning booth today. Perhaps that will be the stress reducer in the year 2043.
to the OP, if all you wanna hear is people agreeing with you, this isnt really the place for taht to be happening. hipforums is filled with lovely, opinionated people who enjoy disagreeing with one another
So Im a bit confused as to how to begin.. To clarify: from what I understand, the question that you want answered is: "What will sex be like in 35+ years?" right? K... short answer first: The same as it always was, and always will be. Sex is something you cant really define.. not in the way it seems you are trying to define it as. Every single act you speak of has been committed before we existed, and before our media network has existed. But due to lack of communication to the degree that we have today, few people who werent part of that lifestyle knew about it. Is this influx of information.. the "information age".. possibly contributing to more and more people learning of these things? And at younger, less appropriate ages? I would have to say yes. Are some of them trying these new, kinky sex acts because they saw them for the first time and were excited and curious? It is safe to say yes on that one too. Is the media to blame? Or the people who commit these acts? How about the people who make them public? Are the people who imitate them to blame? A resounding no. Is there somebody to blame? I would say so. Parents. If its the kids you are worried about.. emulating such acts that to you may seem atrocious.. If you want to blame somebody blame the parents.. but Im not sure if you are trying to attach blame or not, so it doesnt matter. This is the real problem with the kind of perspective you are trying to approach this argument with: You are speaking of copulation. Something that has been around since Phylum Mammalia existed. That is quite the broad-ranging subject with an impressive time-span. Now.. you are trying to single out one insignificant population group: a country that has only been around for 332 years. Now heres my point: Trends have a circular lifespan... they come and go with time. Mainstream is the same as mob mentality. Most likely it will get more extreme, then people will start to get bored with the extremity and settle back down to good ol regular sex. We humans think that the time-frames that we understand are so concrete and absolute. People talk about El Nino and how weather is getting crazier as if its the apocalypse. DO THESE PEOPLE UNDERSTAND HOW MANY TIMES THE PLANET HAS CYCLED FROM EXTREMELY HOT TO EXTREMELY COLD IN A FEW BILLION YEARS!? It is no different than the trend of sex and the extremity of sexual acts. So in 35 years I predict that the sexual acts will all be the same. Maybe some will be more popular, while others are less popular.. maybe certain groups will follow certain sexual trends. Maybe it WILL be more extreme on a generally averaged basis. Maybe religious fundamentalists will take over the world and everybody will be repressed again. All that will mean is that there will be much less of the extreme stuff available for public consumption, and like everything that is repressed, the underground market for it will flourish, and it will once again turn into something criminal. Too much stigma and pressure is put on the act and the emotion of sex. You REALLY want to find somebody to blame? Blame religion, religious zealots, and over-conservative closed-minded points of view that feel the need to place restrictions and judge people that are supposed to be able to consider themselves "free."
You reminded me of something. I should make this a seperate post though so I will. Read it. I'll title it "The past" BTW - sex hasn't been the same. The pirates from hundreds of years ago didn't have sex the same way thugs in the urban community do now. The upperclass people from hundreds of years ago didn't have sex the same way upperclass people from today have sex. Obvious Oral, Vaginal, Anal, Group Play, and the basics were the same... but the way of communication during sex, pillow talk, the actual movements, the positions, the before and after, the mentality, the VIEW OF SEX (obviously it wasn't as big of a deal to last only 2 minutes back then as it is today and i'm sure the youth didn't develop self esteem issues from it like many do today after gossip spreads and rumors circle that Mike can only go 2 minutes!!) Everything was different. I highly double anyone from hundreds of years ago came on their partners eyeballs. I don't think BDSM had a name back then...we didn't even have electricity or cars. The approach to sex and relationship was different, everything was. What has circled back around from 1 extreme 2 the other since the birth of America??? point is: I believe in 35 years men will be cumming up the nose of a female with her head tilted back and making her suck the semen through her nose and into her throat, spit it out into his mouth then from his mouth to her pussy and they'll give it a name with a ring to it. Bukkake didn't exist back then. A lot of things didn't. Sex has done exactly what I said. More extreme. It won't be the same in 35 years. It wasn't anything like it is now 35 years ago - minus the basics. Even seperate practices like BDSM and GROUP PLAY have grown and evolved since then. To say sex as a whole won't grow and evolve in the same direction it is heading now is crazy. In 35 years we'll be licking eyeballs (Not very popular in America right now I guess) and drinking blood. People are evolving. Read "The Past" i'm about to post it. I'm going to talk about male testosterone levels and aggressiveness before we evolved to this level.
Alright, the tone of this post alone made it so I couldn't help but comment. I think ChokingGirl did a good job of proving her point, which I'd have to say I agree with. I don't know what put you in this crazy bitch mood, but you are taking your argument to the extreme. Also, you claim your argument is "true with proof to support it, logic, reason, and common sense." but you are just stating your opinion, no facts. Where did you read that in colleges and high schools all around the country young adults were eating excrement because they got the idea from 2 girls 1 cup? I also enjoyed the comment in your first post "Comments, additions, debate, agreement, disagreement, info, links, everything welcome." followed by your 2nd rant. Another thing, you are 23 years old, how are you so educated in the sexual practices 30 or more years ago? Did you take a class or something? By the way, if you didn't think wierd sexual practices were acceptable a long time ago, check this shit out: http://www.akantiek.nl/shun3.htm
