i just found out from my ex that there was another reason (among others) why she wanted to split up, which makes abit of sense because the other reasons werent really strong enough for a split. It hurts because she said i wasnt really perfect enough for a boyfriend, even though i gave her everything, and she knew it when we were together. It hurts because she said that this problem was there from the start and she didnt tell me. But we have ALWAYS been able to talk about anything.. so it just makes me feel like the whole relationship was a lie on her behalf. I wish we could have got the problem up and out at the start, that way itwill have been sorted, or we would have split before i fell in love with her. plus she wont tell me and its the most frustrating feeling in the world
i JUST found the SAME thing out last night. i sit here, 9:15 am, having slept 3 hours and i can tell you, yea, it hurs BAD. im very sorry about your news. feel free to message me because id be glad to talk with you. hy ex told me that his dad forbid him to see me; but actaully, he just ran off with an old flame. and, your right, now i feel like every good moment we had together was a total and complete lie. good luck with everything. just try to accept, as i am doing, that life goes on and everything happens for a reason
yeah I know the feeling it hurt so bad Now I hate the bitch for all her fucking lies... Advice: "Slayer - god hates us al"l.... excelent album for (breakup) hurts, listen to it rightly and you'll hate instead of hurt... in their own words "hate heels, you should try it sometime"
hah yeah innit man, slayer have made some amazing songs...shame they are spliting up ...also a shame 'god hates us all' is my ex's favourite song >< lol
man that sucks... but hey, exile is better... the lyrics rock! And fuck your ex for having a decent taste in music, hope she didn't ruin the band for ya
youre only 17, omfg, the world is going to end. grow some balls, man. best thing to do is to just get on with life, since you shouldve realised by now that you two have no future together.
youre only 18, omfg, the world is going to end. grow a brain, man. I don't think I can find one guy in here that doesn't know that you should get on, sometimes it can just be harder than you'd think... And don't fucking say "you're only 17"... this is the part of your life that's the most emotional, so shut your fucking hole if you haven't got anything good to say...
i hate that. i, too, realize im 'only 17.' but i stil have a heart, just like any, say, 25 year old women, and it still breaks. sometimes people should realize that feelings are not restrictive to age. he was in love and now hes hurt. im sure he didnt think theyd DEFINITLY grow old together, and he REALIZES it, but it still hurts. so what is there to grow balls about?
cant take honest criticism? sure, its the most emotional, so what... but the chances that you are going to stay with the one youre with at 17-18 are extremely slim. once one realises this, doesnt "mourning" seem entirely and fucking useless? he's being a pussy about it. if he was older it'd be more understandable... but he's 17 and acting like an emo loser.
that was quite the original "comeback." its only been done by everybody. in fact i just got out of an eight month relationship, which sucked at first, but i realise that staying sad about it is essentially useless. unless i die ive got many years ahead of me, with many women sure to be around in those years. and since its useless to ponder on death... dont be such a pussy when it comes to these things. youre a man.
On the bright side a broken heart will heal....given enough time So, I won't say "you are only 17" but I will say as hard as it is to believe one day you will look back at this situation and it wont hurt. By the time you hit 30 (and yes you will get THAT old) you will likely have had your heart broken many times. The thing that you begin to understand as you get older is the shit that you can go through and still be okay. I guess what I am trying to say is that yeah it sucks, but it will get better. Oh, and a word of advice, stop talking to the ex.....if she has to keep adding to the "dump list" stay away from her. When someone does that it is in poor taste and you might want to be glad to be rid of such an emotional manipulator. Once someone leaves it becomes pointless to keep telling the other person why...and rather heartless....JMO
Love and loss doesn't get easier, no matter what age you are. Just try and enjoy any good times you have with any person.
how was that a comeback? It was simply just a stated fact... And wow, you're a regular superman aren't ya? Figured out that staying sad over a lost cause is essentially useless... All by yourself That's something... wow... oh and, how am I being a pussy? I'm not dwelling on anything at all... I'm just sticking up for those that are, because these things, if they are real, isn't something we can control... Physical pain is something we can control, it's easy to just shut it off... but emotional pain, again if it's real, is not something you can just turn off, fact! And personally, I think you're a fool for trying to seem to so secure... Everybody's fucked up in some way when it comes to this stuff, there are just those who admit it and those like you...
