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Hi everyone I just wanted to say hello and give a little insight about me.
My username says it all pretty much, about 3 years ago my husband whom I love with all my heart told me he loves women’s lingerie and from there it has grown. He is a cross dresser a great deal of the time and I’m good with it. But sometimes he will get what I call goofy and act weird and that’s when I need help, advice, sounding board, or a place to unload.
So for today that sums me up,

 

CD'ing is not just regarding the sexual willingness of men, but also a lot of women have the same feeling. I think, if his CD'ing behavers don't create any problem for your marriage relationship is fine, and it is better to respect his feeling.

 

Welcome to HIP - Hope you find what you are looking for here

 

It's nice to meet you.

Your husband needs to stop in my opinion. Not because I have a problem with crossdressing; not at all, but more because he's damaging the relationship. If it's super important to him, he will ascertain that there are gender issues to be conscientious about where role play, or cross-dressing as it were is involved. He will need to be less "goofy" if he wants to be taken seriously, again in my opinion. When we assume a gender I believe we are acting out that part in life to a certain degree. There are gender norms that he could probably easily embody. Maybe he isn't as committed to it as all that. Or maybe he's harboring secret resentment of women that only surfaces during those goofy moments... It's his anger that inhibits him then.

It could be anything, but I gather from what you've said here that something needs to change, even if only slightly.

Congrats on having an interesting relationship, @Curious wife. That certainly makes life less tedious/monotonous.

 

Welcome to the Hip Forums
Enjoy your stay

 

Welcome to hip,, enjoy your stay. Plenty of helpful people here.
What do you mean by goofy?
If it's abusive it needs to stop.

 

Welcome and I hope you find answers here. There are a lot of people with different back grounds and incite that should be able to help.

 

Welcome

 

Welcome to HIP.

 

Thank you

 

I’m sure I will find lots of friends

 

Thank you

 

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No not abusive at all! he stops communicating, gets likes he hiding secrets or something like that. But thank you for the concern.

 

thank you

 

Thank you

 

Welcome, hope you find what you need here and have fun along the way x

 

Ah OK,, hope you find some resolution then

 

Good morning darlin' and welcome.

 

Welcome to the forum

 

Hi curious. If he’s seems quiet about things and seems like he’s hiding something him probably is but that’s probably because he’s afraid to discuss it with you. So far you have been ok and open with his cross dressing so to get him to open up more you would have to show him your ok/comfortable with what ever else it is. PM me for some more thoughts and best wishes