I'm nineteen and still a virgin. (I'm a girl btw) I've been dating this guy for almost a year now, and I want to have sex, but I'm very, very nervous, as you can imagine. I've heard lots of stories; it hurts so bad, it didn't hurt at all, etc. From what I've heard, the more relaxed you are, the less it will hurt (breaking the hymen) From some of my friends, they've said that it's easier just to have him pop my cherry, using his finger, others have said to just let him penetrate with his penis. I'm just really nervous about the whole thing, someone help me?
Well do you masdebate regularly, and go deep when you do? If so then you've probably broken it at some stage or gradually over the years? How long also have you been masdebating if you do? If your man knows you're nervous then make sure that every scenario is special and you'd feel right if it did lead to sex. I lost mine in the best way possible so just relax and get into the moment. My ex said that when i was licking her out it made her more confident and hornier for the upcoming sex so try that.
Izzo Anthem: I do masturbate but I really just touch myself. I've been doing it for two years or so. Okay thanks. Faelixx: Thank you for the tips.
What do you do when you just touch yourself? Does your boyfriend lick you out atall and get you wet enough to even consider having sex? My ex used to love it when I sent her sexts so maybe get him to send you some to turn you on and stuff. or does he do that already? I can show you an example of one I've sent if you don't know what to expect?
We haven't gone anywhere near sex, so he hasn't even been down there, and vise versa. We send pictures, and they do turn me on.
Well do you finger yourself on can and pretend to give him head and stuff? Have you spoken to him about your caution towars sex? x
