Never had a girlfriend

well i went out with one once but i was quite nervous and never called her again. I'm quite shy and don't know what to talk about and i do not enjoy laffing at lame jokes or pretending im interested in what there talking about. yeah

 

i usually resort to rosy hanz and her 5 sisters

 

Or i just roll Han Solo.

 

meh i've never had a gf either, not even got me first kiss yet mate

 

I'm not alone!

 

thank you for the ego boost!

 

justsyno sounds like ya should justsayyes

girls are just people just relax and have fun...maybe get alittle stoned so your not so boring and laff at theyre lame jokes
lighten up...,
hangin ou with girls should be fun..not a chore

have alittle fun..lifes not that serius

 

SA sure that sounds easy but i grow up in a preppy area and got turned down once just because she knew i was a pothead. girls here either are sober or enjoy alcohol which i dont like at all. i seriously odubt i can get a hook up this year due to the fact im kicked out of school. and approaching random girls at malls is out of the question since the rule is firends before steady. i am sure there are some girls here that smoke though.

 

hey i hang out with loads of girls its just i'm always seen as the uy for advice or just a friend

 

thats always a good place to start..from there anythings possible
as long as theres no expectations beyond that

 

well that kinda sucks..lol
preppies are soo boring
theres nothing wrong with freinds b4 steady, just dont rush things
but ya know theres girls who smoke everywhere..but even with stoner girls the rules may be the same ..may be..some may be more open sure, but if your towns sorta conservative even the stoner girls may follow that freinds first rule and theres nothin wrong with that..just hang out get high and enjoy theyre company and ..who knows..ya might be surprised

 

Thanks you SE* and zooth for not being an asshole about this and giving advice. more people like you and this world could be alot better place to live.

 

like soaringeagle said, lifes not that serious!

i am also shy, and have trouble talking to people.. so when i got to college i was REALLY afraid cause i didnt know too many people.. but i thought to myself i'm not gonna sit around and be afraid of talking to people.. so i just saw some people who seemed pretty cool and started talking to them and now we're friends! its as simple as that.. just dont even think about it, just go up to a girl and start talking

it'll work, promise!

 

You're only 16 mate, I wouldn't worry about it that much, I think I was about 16 when I got my 1st girlfriend, and I've only had one other one aside from her.

 

That's exactly how I hooked up with my fiance. I smoked 40 of my blunts with her the first week I knew her, which is bound to bring people together. We were really close friends for a few months, then she came to my house for the weekend and we became bf/gf. She is currently in NC at Job Corps until January, which is when she graduates. Then we will move in together, either here in GA, or in SC, which is where she actually lives.

BTW, what makes this relavent to the thread is that she was my first gf, ever, and we ended up being soulmates, so she will also be my last. These thing can't be forced.....they just kinda have to happen naturally. If you force it, it ends up being just a waste of time that complicates things. Hang in there; you'll find someone that is perfect for you, I'm sure.

 

just ask some chick if she wants to smoke a bowl with you. worst she can say is no, right?

 

well at least u have never had your heart broken

 

just coarse simple advice

Be passionate, be proactive, and find a way to soically bring what you're good at the table.

I never had a real girlfriend, but if was for distance, i would've had some, but my flings all step, them being attracted to me through my passions; i worked at cafe last summer and they have nights where people present their work usally artwork; well i read poetry there, and we were good freinds, she worked the bed and breackfeast next door, and when she heard one of my poem i think it clenched her. One thing lead to another, and was reciteing to her, at her home. And she becasme my frist kiss

ONly like two months ago a girl who use to be my best (unromatic) mate was visting, and we were both hanging on my freinds beach house and she hasn't been to water since she was younger, and never really learned to boogy board. And i approch her like always as a mutal mate, and taught to ride the waves, and i think through my own passion fro the sea she saw me as the person i was, and later at night i showed her the stars on a midnight beach and basking in full lights she was guinely attacted to me; she left but understand i'm not a very attractive guy but dam, if i spoke to you eye to to eye maybe i could discribe exactly how to achive a hunter's eye

 

just remember this man.....if you do get a gf (and it will happen sooner or later..) dont be afraid to grab her hand or give a "look" or hold n kiss her...no wat i mean.....cause trying and failing does alot less damage (to you, her and your relashonship) than being a pussy and just sitting their......

i went through 3 gf's figuring that out.....

and scince were on the confession forum already i guess il confess i was at my gf's house like 2 years ago for about 8 hours 3 of them being after 12:00 am and 6 alone with noone else their, and

NOTHING HAPPENED

nothing at all.....

we cuddled and her fat ass cat came up and we petted it till i ran out of balls and called my mom.....

 

take steriods, small ammounts just for the personality buff

makes u act more manly which is attractive to girls, and u exude this "aura" of "badboyness" which girls crave unconsciously