Well, if you can come when she's jerking you off, maybe it'd help if you asked her to use her hands while she's giving you a BJ, or alternate stroking and sucking. This thread actually suprised me. I've never known a guy who couldn't get off from a blow job, much less that there would be so many guys who had trouble with it.
All of my strongest orgasms have come from blowjobs. I love the attention girls give my cock. For me, there is real magic in the close proximity of a girl's face to my cock, and the thrill is mostly psychological for me. Looking into her beautiful eyes as she jerks me and then sucks me off. Mmm..... :sunny: I want one now!